What do we

I wasnt making fun of your pain. I think you express your self well.

Someone on here is getting off on being a nut cracker. Trying to score a few points with a few women. I think its pretty clear who is acting 9 or 10. Believe me i could go right back at him and be as viciously cutting as he is but this isnt the place for it so im biting my fingers (as in biting my tongue only on a keyboard).

thanks joe... i woke up at midnigiht with this post in my head... i only read it in passing yesterday... strange how something comes back and haunts you when you least expect it...

i was tiinking about all the men in anger management classes, or struggling t save a marriage, about the kids who get lost because we dont listen good to each other...

yeah, i could make it more personal too... insensitivity sucks... insensitivity and dissociation are similar, but not the same... i was dissociated in my marriage... my wife couldnt feel what i couldnt feel....

she interpreted it as insensitivity... insensitivity (for me) is intentional cruelty... like mocking and bullying...

in the end, its kids who get hurt... i dont see that as a laughing matter.. not when those same kids will grow up as bullys themselves, passing it along, or end up as drug addicts or mental patients in some lockdown psychward somewhere we never hear about again, or on the street as homeless or a prostitute or dead in domestic battle and more kids too...

sorry if i take insensitivity personal....

ok.... i may have over-reacted.... i s'pose i can find proof if i looked...

thanks again joe... you're a good guy

I'm kinda lost here .....

I really did not put much thought into whatever was said and took it all as just funny, since obviously there is alot more going on in these forums than i care to know .... but do find it funny/interesting , what bits I have sifted through, and from some pm's from some that never even posted to threads I've read

Heck.... I know I'm hypersensitve LOL ....I'm working on that

on another note :
anyone got any plans for the weekend ?

btw hey joe ...... I was just kidding since you seemed so serious

awwww back from my east coast visit and now i have a little bit of time to really relax got my final ### 's for 07 a savings of 12.1 mil wooo hoo

to get on or off the subject at large here .... Um i dont give a rats behind what other people really think ... WE all wake up anf look at ourselves in the mirrors .... We know what we do is wrong or right and i honestly feel that i shouldnt be told by an absolute stranger what they are interpreting is wrong.... this is their opinion i live with my consequences everyday

off of that ..... I go to those anger management classes for me not anyone else other than me ......

Does this make me a bad person or did it make me smarter cos i made a decision to change something i didnt like about me .... when the ball gets rolling it is all about us and self preservation and that goes for the women too...

im tired been on a flight for 6 hrs getting home

hey Tymber... welcome back... hows the weather?

shake off some jet lag...

we were just talking about insensitivity and bullies a little bit... coral wants to know everyones plans, joe is being joe cool....

glad you had good numbers.... all the work had a outcome you can measure in a way...

by the way... you're the man
take care

Hey now, I can be tender to the ladies but, it would be best if guys didn't take all that tenderness for weakness. I am the Alpha male. Women should be treated with tenderness, kids and the ones that cannot defend themselves too. I don't like women that are men haters. Those types can't make up their minds. They want men to be sensitive one day and cavemen the next day. I have no time for games.

On another note....Vegas was fine and I had a great time.
My DW and me enjoyed it to the Nth degree.

So, c'mon guys and give a post of what life is like for you.
Please no sappy stuff about her doing you wrong and you can't take it. Time to man up and grow a pair.

ha! that was funny.

hey thats what the blues are all about a woman who done you wrong and a suck job.

Yes, I like B.B. King Duces Wild Album

Especially the song "Paying the cost to be the boss".

Crying won't help ya, is also a great tune.

welcome back 50guy... glad you had a good time...

the wife and I are going out tonight to friends for drinks and cards probably spades or rummy, plus the wife bought a rummy cube game that I am sure she'll want to play.

I'll let the wife do the drinking so I can drive

its supposed to be nice this weekend so I hope to get the kids play house finished, I still have to put the siding and deck on before spring ...at least I wont have a hang over in the morning

well, i work every weekend... yeah, i know, boring....

right now im sitting in the propane shack... boss has centerfold pin-ups in the walls (bathing suits) ... surrounded by tools and 'man stuff' ... yeah, this feels right

you must get weekdays off then

we work mon-thrus 10hr days, we descoverd that this actually increased productivity and lowered overhead costs
and is also considered a benifit by most employ's
obviously some companys cant operate that way, but it is nice,
makes for nice long weekends

what is a propane shack ?

I rebuild 3phase transformers, and consider myself internal operations manager of the plant

sounds like your all alone in there with all them tools

my wife has a Bday coming up , anyone got any good ideas they wanna share they have done as a suprise , she will be 32,
I was thinking of getting some friends together and going to a comedy club for dinner, they have comics that have been on comedy central there sometimes

weekdays i have off coral... pretty nice, all its cost me is a life of depression... haha..

a propane shack is where we keep the tools, the computer, a chair and desk, and it smells like tools and lube grease... all the smells of dads shop growing up..

its about the size of any shed, 10x12 or so... has a stereo and a phone and the internet... all i need to get thru 12 hours of lot cleanup, spills cleanup, propane tank filling and devalving...

i love working with propane... one mistake, and woohoo!, it changes a lot... since we sit on about 10,ooo gallons of diesel and unleaded, i ove it when some clunkhead drives up and gets out with a smoke in their hands... very cool....

and, thats my rant..

for fun, i take a trip here or there occasionally and play 'new me' in some random tourist town.... it aint so bad...

hope you dont have many spills

I know how that can be

we hold around 30,000 gallons of mineral oil,it can burn in a diesel engine, not to mention hundreds of tranformers moved with forklifts and sitting around the yards full of oil

probably the most risk of explosion though is while jet arcing the tops off of pad mounted transformers that have gone bad, since a gas builds up that exnites and makes them explode like a bomb, if they are not purged first with nitrogen

tell me more about the most resent random tourist town trip, that sounds interesting

If I was single I would go to Amsterdam

CORAL,

I FILLED UP THE WIFEYS CAR WITH BALLOONS AND PLACED STREAMERS ON THE OUTSIDE OF HER TRUCK . WROTE THINGS ON THE WINDOWS
IN THE CENTER OF ALL THE BALLONS SAT 11 RED ROSES AND ONE SATIN BLACK ROSE WITH A NOTE SAYING " I'LL LOVE YOU UNTIL THE LAST ROSE DIES"

THE BLACK SATIN ROSE WILL NEVER DIE .... JUST SAYING THAT U WILL NEVER STOP LOVING HER

HOPE THAT HELPS

DAVID

WOW that sounds cool, gives me some ideas

quick questions guys ????

I have a friend that I like more than a friend but not as well as a girlfriend ... I like spending time with her ....

Is it appropriate to give her flowers for V-day just as friends ????

To show my appreciation ---- No roses though like a Spring Bouquet



David

i thought only red means romantic love ?

I got a bouquet that has a single rose that is surrounded by daisys and alstromerias

class

so do u think its ok to do this >>>>>>

you need to be happy Tymber ... nice selection of flowers imo...

Wouldnt see any problem with it, myself

I think it's cool though there is some small risk that she might wonder if you might be hinting at something.

Cyran0

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I think it's cool though there is some small risk that she might wonder if you might be hinting at something.

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I agree

but I thought you had a wife Tymber