[dragonphoto]

1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

8. Guys don't care how gorgeous you are, if you're a *****-- Goodbye.

9. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

10. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

11. Guys are very open about themselves.

12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

14. Guys love you more than you love them.

15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot.

16. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

25. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

27. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of them.

33. They love it when girls talk about their boobs.

34. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

35. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

36. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

37. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

38. Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probaly still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life.

[dragonphoto]

You know I think it is great that all the woman are reading this, it helps them understand that we are just not hunters and gathers.

[nowheretorun]

Thats a pretty good list Dragon... i know theres gotta be more than 38 good things about guys... i thought of a few too.. maybe we can change this whole concept about guyhoodness...

39. Guys vacuum the crumbs from the passenger car seat before dates.

40. Guys rarely invite more than one friend to tag along just in case...

41. Guys get nervous about that first phone call too.

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42. Guys will spend more than ten minutes getting ready for that first date.

[nowheretorun]

psst Dragon... they dont know we're reading the twin thread in Womens forum...

[dragonphoto]

Goodness I hope not...I just thought after reading our thread that we let them in on some secrets.

[sassypants]

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[nowheretorun]

43. GOOD guys will get out in the rain and put gas in the car..
44. GOOD guys will even pay for the gas...
45. GOOD guys dont cheat on you with your best friends..

[TYMBERWOLV]

46. Great men always have the support of others
47 Good men will ask for directions
48.Men will cry at a love story but will always blame something else

49. Good men will open the door for anyone
50. Good men have the patience of a snail

[dragonphoto]

51. Good men will always put others before them.
52. Good men will buy a single rose for their loved one for no reason.
53. Good men love to snuggle up on cold nights.

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54. When a guy's heart breaks you can hear it all the way around the world.

55. A guy that is playing hard to get is probably just really shy.

[nowheretorun]

56. guys need to be told when to help and when to just hold...
57. guys need to be told when its over and there's no chance of it ever reviving...
58. the questions game drives us crazy... just tell us whats up...
59. our powers of mind reading are getting stronger everyday...

[dragonphoto]

Thank you Nowhere...great additions.

[nowheretorun]

60. occasionally we have projects outside the relationship... please allow us our privacies as you enjoy your own..
61. when we attempt to explain that we have a need for privacy, dont take it personal, that just complicates things and exasperates us.

[dragonphoto]

62. Even though guys are hunters we still have a sensitive side that can be hurt by having our privacy invaded.

[helpme07]

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[coralproper]

63. If you want your man to be on his toes, and worship the ground you walk on all day, make sure he knows that morning you plan to give him extra special treatment that night.

Maybe this just works on me LOL

[nowheretorun]

64. sometimes we NEED to be alone... other times, we NEED you so much we forget about self-control...

[dragonphoto]

Yeah right Self-control I find it very hard to get over that hurdle...everytime I think I have cleared it my brain starts it's warp drive and I might as well hang it up. What is about women that make us that way? I know if it were another guy I would really not care if he talked to me ever again...but when my wife is upset I become a babbling fool...look there I go again.

[nowheretorun]

[[[[[[[ Dragon ]]]]]]]] sometimes we just get by... ive decided that without Hope, i have little to dream of..

i really get the things youve said on the boards.. it describes the emptiness i felt inside when i went through that also... i came out the other side, but pretty isolated..

it helped me to have projects that removed me from the vacuum of my pain...

take care...

[salukigirl]

sorry.... butting in for a moment....

then why do we always find the jerks? the ones who dont follow any of those things you guy just listed?

i basically had to hunt my boyfriend down because i thought to myself "he is a good guy and im through with jerks." but he is so insecure and shy that he never approaches girls. why is it that the ones with charm and carisma are the ones who screw us over and the nice guys, who we need even when we dont admit it, are too busy not going out meeting people. if nice guys would get out there and not be so shy maybe the saying "nice guys finish last" wouldnt exist.

sorry again... please continue

[nowheretorun]

ya know Dragon, being a nice guy is pretty hard... caring and having feelings is confusing at times....

i think its like saluki girl said once.. guys need drive, courage... its something they find attractive and we get stuff done that way..

you're driving towards a goal... nothing wrong man...

[nowheretorun]

65. its hard being a nice guy, but it can make a nice man out of you.

[nowheretorun]

66. cavemen are people too.

[coralproper]

well..saluk....does it matter how you got him if thats what you want'd ?

I have learned that a women REALLY wants a man with "confidence ".....at first, in every action they make,
it can be about money, bedroom , handyman work around the house, going out on the town

of course this is just my opinion

but i feel your statement sterotypes all men that are not shy and lack confidence, as jerks

not that i really care..but if you wanted a man like this that is not a jerk, don't just give up because you think they don't exist and settle for something lacking...cause you think its just a myth

but if you are happy with what you got

why worry ? thats all that matters

but I am far from shy and hope that don't make me a jerk LOL