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![]() Sorry to start another thread am struggling at the moment a member of my family is pregnant i found out a few weeks ago am scared am going to harm this baby once it gets here am feel like i cant hold it or ill end up dropping the baby there have been things in the news about baby deaths the thoughts are bad i dont think i can hold this baby because am scared ill do something bad its been about 11 years since i have held a baby then my OCD wasnt as bad as it is now
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I can understand what you are feeling. MI does strange things to my way of thinking. Another way to cope with anxieties like this is a therapist.
Also one could hold the baby while another holds her or you could be seated in a couch where the baby will not drop. If your negative thoughts continue, staying away from immediate care of baby may be necessary.
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i did have a therapist but it was for a limited time id need to wait a year and a half again because it nhs ( uk ) and i cant afford to pay for therapy
by the time i see her the baby will be born and ill still have these thoughts the babys not even born yet and am scared ill hurt it my family who pregnant is here at the moment she dont know about my thoughts i dont want to scare her there only one way for the baby to be safe i must kill myself before the baby is born
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