[Fuzzybear]

Someone posted asking about this question a while back..... she had been accused of being "immature".

I just wonder if you feel that way about me?

Having a bad bear day, sorry,

Fuzzy

[LMo]

Nope. You most certainly are NOT immature. You're great!

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I'm really not sure what this is about and I'd rather not know, but I'm so very sorry that you're not having a good day. Wanna ferret hug?

Ry

[h0kie]

You're one of the LEAST immature people I know.

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[vacantangel]

Oh sweet fuzzy bear, what's going on that you're so down and questioning yourself? I'm here to listen if you need someone. You can send me a PM if you should choose. Of course you are NOT immature and I can't even imagine where this is all coming from. I've never, EVER seen you that way. I see a warm, compassionate, fun and friendly person who is always there willing to support others. That's not an immature person. Please don't let whatever is troubling you eat you up so much. If anybody is seen as immature around here, look in my direction sweetie, stop looking at yourself.

(((((((((((( fuzzy bear )))))))))))

[nothemama8]

If you need to pm me if Im at fault

[nothemama8]

I for one do not think your immature

[PlanningtoLive]

Never would apply that word to you, Fuzzy.

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Feel better.

xoxooxox

</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
<font color="purple">Someone posted asking about this question a while back..... she had been accused of being "immature".

I just wonder if you feel that way about me? </font>

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> How to go about answering this?

Some questions of my own come to mind.

<font color="#215E21">Why do you ask this question?
When you phrase your question "you" are you speaking to a particular group of people?
What is important about how others feel about you?
Again, any particular group of people and their feelings that you wonder about?

Have you done anything lately that you yourself think is immature?
Has there been anything lately that reminded you of this accusation?

<font color="black">Now onto accusations..........what about the previously mentioned question from a while back about someone else being accused of being immature...</font>

<font color="#215E21">What does accusation mean to you?
Is immaturity a bad thing?
Is this an accusation in context?
Is this someone projecting their own stuff onto others by making such an accusation? </font>

<font color="black">Can you see how I can't really answer your question until I better understand your reasons for asking it? What is behind the question of <font color="purple">I just wonder if you feel that way about me? [referring to someone else who has been accused of being "immature" ]</font>? That is what is the heart of this matter imnsho.......and we by now know my opinions are rarely humble.

No need to apologize for a bad day bear. We all have 'em. Instead of apologizing just grrrrrowl and let it be. Why be sorry for having emotions and feelings??? Sheesh bear! Without those you'd be a robot and sorry to any robot lovers out there but I don't think robots make for kind, empathetic, fuzzy pals.

Ask a more direct question and you'll get a more direct answer! </font>

[SpazKatt]

nope not at all darling *hugs*

Now, *I* am immature. See? And, since "it takes one to know one", I'd say no.

Hugs, emmy

P.S. I'm so glad you got grown up answers from zh!

[Wants2Fly]

Good post, Zh. I think we all have these concerns from time to time, FuzzyBear. But that doesn't mean these thoughts are true.

Feel better. ((((((((((((((((((FB)))))))))))))))))))

[jmo531]

Never.... Your great

[kimmydawn]

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i'm just getting to know you and i'm so happy that i am. immature? no, that word would not come CLOSE to entering my head to describe you.

kind, considerate, caring, nice, giving, fair, observant, friendly, loyal...now those are words i would use to describe the bear i've come to know in this short time.

i'm sending you wishes for a wonderful day tomorrow.

love,

[GreyGoose]

Fuzzy - I personally don't see you as being immature at all. You've always responded to my posts in a friendly, courteous and "adult-like" manner and I have always enjoyed hearing from you. Even if you ever did act immature, hey, we ALL lose ourselves once in awhile. I guess it's just the kid inside trying to escape. Just be yourself:-).

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[vacantangel]

Just back to send you some more hugs just because I think you could use them. I hope you're feeling better about things soon.

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