[inkblot]

I need an ex-husband voo-doo doll! One that comes with nails and ice picks instead of pins. Anybody know where I can get one?! He is being such an @ss! Calgon, take me away--PLEASE! I am so afraid!

[SeptemberMorn]

Oh, geeez, girl! If you're afraid, make the sing of the cross instead! (and I'm not Catholic!)

Please stay safe!!

[jmo531]

If you ever find where to get one, pick me one up too.

[inkblot]

I'm afraid for myself, Sept. I'm not handling his emails and @ssiness very well. My reactions scare me. The future scares me. I don't know what is going to happen. He is keeping the kids from me. I haven't seen them in 3 months. Yesterday was my daughter's birthday. He was using the excuse that I had a stalker and order of protection. Now he is saying its because I am homeless.

[inkblot]

Be happy to

[SeptemberMorn]

CRAP! And I suppose you don't have an attorney, either, do you?

He can't legally keep your kids from you!

[vacantangel]

Oh inky, I'm so sorry to hear that your x is being a real *** towards you and not letting you see you kids and is scaring you. Is there not something you can do legally so that you can see them? Also, is there no kind of government agency in the US that would help you with housing. There is here. My heart just goes out to you and what you have to deal with. You're a strong woman, whether you believe that or not.

[inkblot]

No, he can't, and no, I don't. I haven't got money. The legal aid places don't do anything either. Plus, I am afraid of taking him to court. I am afraid that all the stress and hell it will bring could make me very suicidal. The reactions I have to His Royal @ssness emails lately have been depressive--with those type of thoughts. I do better between, but it only takes talk of my kids to bring me down. I am okay for now, but I know it's something to watch. My daughter's T is rightfully concerned about me, too. I admitted how I feel in a voice mail to him recently.

[vacantangel]

Oh sweetie, seems you are caught between a rock and a hard place. How long have you been homeless? Are you able to work at all? My heart just bleeds for you. You're such a sweet person and don't deserve all this just because you've fallen on hard times and have a mental disorder. Life SUCKS!!! You're in my thoughts and prayers. Try to hang in there.

(((((((((((( inky ))))))))))))

[jmo531]

(((((((ink)))))))

I had no idea that the situation was so serious. You must get a lawyer. They have legal aide in most counties. I am sorry your going through this. I feel horrible for you. I'm sorry.

i'd make you a voodoo doll, if i could sew...i hope you can get a lawyer...try the legal aid office....try for a mean woman lawyer!!

[silver_queen]

((((((((((((((inky))))))))))))))))))

I'm sorry you're going through this. It must be horribly tough for you.

And a little off topic... the google adverts at the bottom of the page here are pretty funny...

[vacantangel]

Hey silver, you're right, they are pretty funny, I hadn't looked until you mentioned it. There's one there for buying voodoo dolls. Hmmmmmmmm!!!

[wi_fighter]

Inkblot, I know it sounds impossible right now, but you have to fight as hard as you can. The women's shelters here have legal advocates, so even if you can't get a lawyer you can get some advice. I wish I'd had someone telling me all this stuff four years ago. I had a bullying, emotionally abusive husband who threatened to leave me homeless with the kids one day and the next day would say if I left him without the kids that I'd never see them again. It's all BS. Don't fall for it, even though I can imagine how persuasive he must sound. I fell for it. Learn from my mistakes, OK?

Document the abusive emails so you can show them to someone who can do something about it. There must be some kind of restraining order that can be put in place regarding harrassing emails. If it's not information regarding the kids, you shouldn't have to be subjected to his :bs:

Four years later, and I'm finally dragging my ex back to court to right as many of the wrongs as I possibly can. It's hard, because he refuses to retract any of the BS demands he made me agree to back then, because then he would have to admit maybe he's not always right about everything after all. I go through periods of extreme anxiety, thinking maybe I should give up the fight and save myself the money and emotional pain, but I'm not fighting just for me. I'm fighting on behalf of my kids, too, so I can't back down. NOT THIS TIME!!

My heart goes out to you, not being able to see your kids for so long. I know no amount of hugs and kind words can ease that pain, but know that we're all here pulling for you.

Inky, last I checked you can carve one out of an onion I got that from Dogma. Might be worth a shot. I'm sorry your ex is such a piece of crap.

Ry

[mortimer]

I'm sorry... There's a virtual web site you could use. If you look up virtual voodoo dolls you can find more morbid ones, I think this one's pretty clean.

http://www.instantvoodoo.com/default...lash=true&

Let it load and it should work. *hug* I hope this pretend makes you feel a little better. :3

Okay?

That's freakin cool mortimer. Didn't work, but was cool anyway.

Ry

inky..you're in my thoughts hon........

[LostandLonleySoul]

My ex tried some of that with me. Except that my situation was a little different. There are places that will help you. I don't know what state your in, but all you have to do is file contempt of court. Custody papers or divorce papers with you. All you have to do is go to the court house and to the clearks office and someone will point you in the right direction.

[mortimer]

Hmn, well, it works for me. o_o;;;

I gotta sign off now, and next time I can I'll look for a good site. Virtual voodoo dolls is what I looked up on google.

Sorry. >_<

[Wants2Fly]

Here's a silly voodoo doll, Inky, to make you smile.

http://www.funsilly.com/voodoo.html