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Old Apr 19, 2005, 06:58 PM
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At times I get frustrated that amongst my friends it always seems to be me who organises events and gets in contact with people.

I try not to think about it too much but from time to time I do get annoyed. One friend of mine tells me that I'm the glue that binds our group together so when I get peeved I try to think of it in this positive manner.

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Old Apr 19, 2005, 07:03 PM
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i understand your feelings but its great that you can turn it around and see it as a positive......i'm very organized so i usually get those duties too......thanks for making me see that it can be a good thing!
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Old Apr 19, 2005, 07:05 PM
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hey, it happens with lots of people...they see that you're energetic and resourceful and it gets put on you........pat
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Old Apr 19, 2005, 08:00 PM
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Yep... I've had that with my best friend. For the longest while, it was always me who organized us going out or meeting up. Now I just sit back and make her make the effort to contact me...
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Old Apr 20, 2005, 01:26 PM
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I'm one of those annoying ppl that always waits for someone else to put activities, parties and get togethers planned. I'm always willing to help out, cook, set-up, clean-up, bring a gift. But I never ever initiate it. First of all I don't have ppl to my home, it is my sanctuary that I don't want invaded, except for a couple of very close ppl. And second, I'm a homebody and introvert by nature. TgrsPurr. xo
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