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Apr 25, 2005, 05:37 PM
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Just got me in TROUBLE!!!
 I didn't do anything this time!!! I'm scared!! Art, my good neighbor... well... he's coming on to me!!! OMG!!! What do I do now???????? <font color="red">I DON'T WANNA GO THERE!!!</font>
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Apr 25, 2005, 05:42 PM
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Dunno - is he cute?
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Apr 25, 2005, 05:51 PM
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Yeah, is he HOT? Cause if he is......I don't see the problem.
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Apr 25, 2005, 05:52 PM
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LOL
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#5
Apr 25, 2005, 05:53 PM
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I don't care about looks! I just don't wanna go there!! I'm really scared! Not kidding at all!
 Have you been keeping up with my posts about Jerry, the so-called husband??
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Apr 25, 2005, 05:54 PM
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Tell him your fondness for him is like that of a sister for a big brother. Start thanking him and referring to him with "Bro" . . . as in :I couldn't have done it without your help, bro."
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Apr 25, 2005, 05:54 PM
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I worried this would happen Tomi. Firmly...but politely tell him no. Blame your hurt over your husband's lack of attention. Blame it on anything.
Do you think you should scale back your involvement with him? Be safe Tomi. Please, be safe.
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Apr 25, 2005, 05:54 PM
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I was out of town (NYC) for a few days but am slowly catching up.
Yeah, he sounds like he needs to be LMo-ized. I don't know what his problem is... you've had enough crap to deal with! 
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Apr 25, 2005, 05:56 PM
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No ugly, not "hot." Just "hot to trot!"
YOU GUYS!! This is the guy that did time for murder!!!! Only problem is, he's been carrying me around on a pillow since Jerry left! STOP THE WORLD AND LET ME OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Apr 25, 2005, 05:57 PM
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I sowwy!! I have memory issues.
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Apr 25, 2005, 05:59 PM
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Oh My. I didnt know that. Um, yeah, I would reinforce the brother sister relationship. Yikes.
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:00 PM
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Kathy, 1day... you're both right. Should I tell him I'm too vulnerable right now to think about a relationship??
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:02 PM
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Uh, YES! Do/say whatever you need to say to get out of the situation. Take care of yourself.
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:03 PM
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Yes and also too self-protective to be generous and giving to another as he deserves from someone. And reiterate his role in your life as a brotherly figure and that you would not jeopardize the mutual regard you have for each other by going ahead with mixed emotions at this time.
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:06 PM
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Sorry, Lee Ann. Didn't mean to sound like I was snapping at you. I'm just really petrified right now. Oh, GAWD! He just came and went...
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:07 PM
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well wait a minute... exactly what is he doing? Are you really scared-scared? Like, calling-the-police-scared?
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:12 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
generous and giving to another as he deserves from someone </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> THAT'S what got me in trouble to begin with! Being generous and friendly! Gotta tell him I'm still "in love" with Jerry and I can't give my heart or ANYTHING ELSE! Don't know how far I can expose my vulnerability, though...  You know what? His coming and going could really get on my nerves!!! I like my independence!
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:12 PM
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Yeah good question LMo. I was wondering the same thing. If it were me and he wasn't threatening me I would probably be flatered.....unless he just turned me off totally.
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:13 PM
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LOL Stop hurting yourself! I have memory issues, too. It's okay!
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:23 PM
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... or didn't appear to take 'no' for an answer easily
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:32 PM
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Your hubby seems to have recently taken a wee bit of a ...um..vacation? And within 48-hrs the guy next door hits on you?! I'd say telling him to very kindly give you space is in order. Like, "I'm flattered but I am not ready to start a new relationship". If he can't back off and remain friends, then he never was one in the first place.
Please be careful - a man with murder in his past is a serious risk. The best predictor of violence is a viloent history. His coming on to you at this time in your life is a good example of his not coming to terms with his own issues. It's completely inappropriate and self-serving. Please be careful. Once you explain your lack of interest, he should back off immediately. And don't hesitate to 911 him if you are feeling frightened. ((((SeptemberMorn)))) Em |
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:38 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Kathy, 1day... you're both right. Should I tell him I'm too vulnerable right now to think about a relationship?? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Or how about NOT saying something that leaves room for him to wonder if the interest is mutual like bluntly telling him you are NOT interested, nor will you ever be? "I'm too vulnerable right now to think about a relationship" leaves the DEFINITE impression that there is wiggle room on your boundary, hon
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#23
Apr 25, 2005, 06:40 PM
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Not calling-the-police scared. I fear for my emotions and my heart! And, well, yes... I sorta fear for my safety... sorta...
He's been nothing but kind (%#@&#! here he comes again -- he's gone now) and good to me, I just don't want the hassles and problems of a relationship! I don't think my kids would accept him. I DON'T WANT THIS!!!
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#24
Apr 25, 2005, 06:44 PM
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Well then, just pay attention to your instincts and don't let your guard down now that he's made it clear that he's interested.
Ya can't blame a guy for trying, though, can ya? When you're hot, you're hot! ;-)
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Apr 25, 2005, 06:45 PM
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wait... MURDER in his past??????!!!!! I just read what Emmy wrote -- did I miss something?????
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