Im guilty too :)

Ya ever been in a meeting and the person who called it is waiting for everyone to quiet down so he can begin and the talking just wont stop. Then people start shushing the ones talking which irritates them and more shushers start shushing and the voices get louder and arguing starts. I dunno whether im a shusher or a talker but probably both. Finally the "boss" or whoever called the meeting has to get angry and both sides are irritated at being scolded in public. Ive never seen it end any other way but hey, i have limited experience. I hope the shushers and talkers can figure this out before the scolding comes and upset feelings get escalated. Ill do my part by not responding in the negative type threads, so i wont be a shusher or a talker from here on out. Its really hard, i try to justify it in my head as i just wanna make this one quick point and then others give theirs and i feel compelled to respond. Either way im gonna be good tho, or try my best to be

Like your signature line heheheh

Good point Shay. Nothing more to say cause all there is to do is let it go and use this site for what it's made for, support. Not to tear everyone down for every little thing.

So I'm with you, I'm not saying shush cause it provokes it more, so I'll just shut up and not start anymore.

I can totally relate to what you are saying.
bite my tongue...bite bite bite....hold that thought
hold it
hold it
to become part of the frey is attractive...
jump in and hold my breath
then swim fast as I can to the surface.
I can see the light of the sky as I break the waters edge.
exhale
inhale
relax
let it
go
go
Ganesha