Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Feb 11, 2010, 06:49 PM
xXWhyXx's Avatar
xXWhyXx xXWhyXx is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Feb 2010
Posts: 58
Hello, I sometimes get obsessed with things (ex: learning Japanese, sewing) and then I just suddenly don't feel like doing it anymore. I just give up on it and completely lose interest. Is this normal?

advertisement
  #2  
Old Feb 11, 2010, 06:56 PM
perpetuallysad's Avatar
perpetuallysad perpetuallysad is offline
Grand Poohbah
 
Member Since: Sep 2007
Location: Mississippi
Posts: 1,728
I don't know if it would be classified as normal, but I do it all of the time. Its one of the things I do when I am especially manic. I have so many crafts and books and god knows what stacked around this house for the millions of great ideas I have...
__________________
"School is shortened, discipline relaxed, philosophies, histories, languages dropped, English and spelling gradually gradually neglected, finally almost completely ignored. Life is immediate, the job counts, pleasure lies all about after work. Why learn anything save pressing buttons, pulling switches, fitting nuts and bolts?" Bradbury, Ray Fahrenheit 451 p 55-56
  #3  
Old Feb 11, 2010, 07:37 PM
TheByzantine
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Do you ever go back after some time and start again?
  #4  
Old Feb 11, 2010, 07:46 PM
BashfullOne's Avatar
BashfullOne BashfullOne is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Aug 2009
Location: Northewestern IL
Posts: 465
I'm like that - I eventually will start it up again: reading, scrap booking, sewing... I'll read for weeks on end and then stop reading for months. I was scrap booking, making money at and all of a sudden, after doing it for months, I just stopped. I go in spurts... Now I'm ready to scrap book again after not having done it for about 3 months. And all the books I've bought, yet to read, will be waiting for me this summer... I just go in spurts....
I'm bi-polar - not sure if this is part of being BP or not.
__________________
BashfullOne

Obsessed with things but then give up..?

__________________________________
The most important of life's battles is the one we fight daily in the silent chambers of the soul. ~ David O. McKay
  #5  
Old Feb 11, 2010, 07:48 PM
Junerain's Avatar
Junerain Junerain is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Jul 2004
Location: dreamy land
Posts: 16,888
That is a sign of ADHD- not saying you have it.....I do the same and -I have it....
__________________
  #6  
Old Feb 12, 2010, 03:34 AM
Maven's Avatar
Maven Maven is offline
Pirate Goddess
 
Member Since: Oct 2005
Location: South Jersey, USA
Posts: 5,246
Put me on the list, too. I get into things, then get out of them, then later, back into them. Speaking for myself, I believe I have ADD, but not ADHD (I'm not hyperactive, no matter how you cut it).
__________________
Maven

If I had a dollar for every time I got distracted, I wish I had some ice cream.

Equal Rights Are Not Special Rights

  #7  
Old Feb 12, 2010, 05:42 AM
Anonymous32723
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
I do this sometimes...but I'll usually give up because I'm too depressed to continue with it. For example, I began exercising regularly but after two weeks I became overwhelmed, and suddenly stopped. I have an obsessive personality, so it happens sometimes!
  #8  
Old Feb 12, 2010, 06:37 AM
daytimedreamer's Avatar
daytimedreamer daytimedreamer is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Nov 2009
Location: NS, Canada
Posts: 114
I am notorious for this, but it is because I am a perfectionist. As soon as one thing goes wrong, I want to bury my head in the sand and die of shame. If I can't do it right every time, why do it at all? I am just wasting everyone's time. etc. etc.

It really takes a lot for me to make a mis-step and then pick myself up and keep going. 9 times out of 10 I just run away hide for weeks.
  #9  
Old Feb 12, 2010, 07:30 AM
nvr_mnd's Avatar
nvr_mnd nvr_mnd is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2010
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 124
I do that a lot. Like, once I got obsessed something for a little while during a longish break from school... And when it came time for school to start up again I got this feeling like this obsession (Or hobby, or whatever you want to call it) wouldn't be 'right' because things were going back to the way they were before the break. Though for me restoring 'normality' to the school stuff is part of my OCD or whatever so that might just be me.
__________________
  #10  
Old Feb 14, 2010, 02:52 PM
xXWhyXx's Avatar
xXWhyXx xXWhyXx is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Feb 2010
Posts: 58
Sometimes.
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheByzantine View Post
Do you ever go back after some time and start again?
  #11  
Old Feb 14, 2010, 07:31 PM
carrie-19's Avatar
carrie-19 carrie-19 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Apr 2009
Location: ireland
Posts: 181
I do this with things like styles of clothes, hair , books and hobbies. I think it might be because we go through the subject so intensely in such a short amount of time we get bored of it fast. Just a thoery
  #12  
Old Feb 15, 2010, 02:23 AM
Maven's Avatar
Maven Maven is offline
Pirate Goddess
 
Member Since: Oct 2005
Location: South Jersey, USA
Posts: 5,246
For me, one of the problems is, I don't have the space to "get into" things. I don't have a room or an area of a room where I can have like some office space. Like, if I were into beading at the time, I don't have an area where I can work, keep my beads where they'd be easy-to-reach, space to move around and not have to move stuff to get to things.
__________________
Maven

If I had a dollar for every time I got distracted, I wish I had some ice cream.

Equal Rights Are Not Special Rights

  #13  
Old Feb 15, 2010, 09:16 PM
NeilPM NeilPM is offline
New Member
 
Member Since: Oct 2006
Posts: 2
I don't think that is abnormal at all. Everybody's interests wax and wane over time. It reminds me of a teenager going through phases. The new idea is initially extremely interesting and then the more you work on it, the more you just kind of get bored. I wouldn't call it pathology though, so no worries!
  #14  
Old Feb 16, 2010, 12:18 AM
sewsweetie28's Avatar
sewsweetie28 sewsweetie28 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Feb 2010
Location: San Diego, Ca
Posts: 73
I do this as well, I have border line Personality Disorder, I will get really into a sewing project and buy mass amounts of fabric for the project and even set up a way I can sell my stuff, and then I get bored of it and stop. I amke up excuses for why I have stopped. I disapoint myself a lot when I do this. I think its "normal" for people like us!
  #15  
Old Feb 16, 2010, 09:48 AM
Shangrala's Avatar
Shangrala Shangrala is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Sep 2008
Location: SanFrancisco BayArea, California
Posts: 1,404
I do this as well....I used to think it was because I did meth, (which is very likely in some respects), but that was years ago, stopped long ago, and the behavior remains....so maybe it's not so much the drug, but just how I am.

I've noticed I behave (do hobbies) in cycles. One hobby leads to another, abandon the first for the second, then into the third I go, abandoning the second....then, third leads back to the first again...lol. It's a regular cycle for me.
I've noticed, too, that....despite how much effort I put into my sketchings/paintings.....I NEVER sign them.....O.o...Hmmmm. That signifies something....just never really understood what....lmao.

Shangrala
__________________
Obsessed with things but then give up..?

IU!
  #16  
Old Feb 16, 2010, 12:27 PM
Lostforevermore's Avatar
Lostforevermore Lostforevermore is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2010
Location: In my head
Posts: 95
Quote:
Originally Posted by xXWhyXx View Post
Hello, I sometimes get obsessed with things (ex: learning Japanese, sewing) and then I just suddenly don't feel like doing it anymore. I just give up on it and completely lose interest. Is this normal?
I do it all the time...it seems to be like that what my life has come down to. I haven't been able to really finish anything that I've started in the last couple of years. I changed majors several times and took so many classes that I didn't finish and then finally dropped out of college. The longest I've been able to keep a job for the last couple of years has been about 8 months, even though every time I start the job I think this is it, I love this job.

I have so many little projects that I've started and didn't finish...about four journals that I've started writing in but stopped after a while. Thought about writing a book, volunteering in the peace corps, joining the military, running away, finding a new job, go back to school, etc...but I haven't been able to finish any of the things I've started or even thought of doing.

I think it has to do with the way I feel and my depression. I'm hoping if I get my depression under control I might actually be able to do something with my life and actually finish something that I've started.
__________________
"Trying to take it one day at a time."
Thanks for this!
Junerain
Reply
Views: 16499

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 10:23 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.