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Jul 10, 2005, 04:31 PM
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#4
Jul 10, 2005, 04:31 PM
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oh dear miss a........you are going to upset alot of folks by that one comment.......lol.....but i have to say...........you sure don't quit! lol
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#5
Jul 10, 2005, 04:39 PM
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That didn't explain anything much less what you're thinking.
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#6
Jul 10, 2005, 04:50 PM
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I'm not going to tell you what's going on in my life anymore as I try to somehow no one understands. I'm having a hard time at school, home and even here. To me sometime's I think the word "love" is just one big lie. Heck, I don't need sympathy, I just want not to be misunderstood. Plus I'm looking up the word in the dictory being "support" seeing what it means and if it reflects here. I didn't make a teen forum in the end. But I've found a excellent one and you know why it's excellent because no one is pointing and blamming others. Sure, I'm leaving have a party, because theres no need for me to be here. I'm still firguring out what I did wrong in the first place. Even if I'm gone for a couple of days someone will talk behind my back about me. I've just said meh right now because I'm not thinking of anything anymore. Thank you for your time!
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#7
Jul 10, 2005, 05:02 PM
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I don't think you did anything wrong here. But, it is great you found a teen forum, where you may be better understood. But, please come back and visit. I thought you were a bit "chatty" and it may get boring without you hanging around... But as far as you doing anything wrong, I can't see it..... Maybe what folks are fussing about blew right over my head. I dunno... Hang in there...
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#8
Jul 10, 2005, 05:02 PM
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no generalizations here, Miss A...I know that you're way beyond your chronological age....(& I'm sorry that you didn't have the opportunity to just be a kid), but hey...I didn't either...so..I guess I understand...hang in there and continue to seek peace...You'll find it...love grace
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:03 PM
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Miss A, I think your quite the mature young lady.
I wish you well in all your endeavors. Leave me a note sometimes to tell me how you're doing. I'm glad you found a place where you feel comfortable. I'm sorry it wasn't here. I'll tell you what i tell others...you have to do what you have to do to keep yourself emotionally safe. It sounds as if you're doing that. Be safe! kd
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:09 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
I didn't make a teen forum in the end. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> ??? Because you didn't like DocJohn's decision? You figured you'd force him to ? meh. That was only a small thought upon my behalf. I wish you well at the teen forum.
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:11 PM
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Miss A, in the very beginning I tried to understand you. I tried to help, but you flamed me and then put me on ignore... Hope you learned something about how to get along with others from that.
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:23 PM
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that hating gets you no where. I mean look at the boming in London that happend a while back. It only made London stronger then ever and that the person behind it didn't reach the goal because they failed to commincate in a adult maner. Heck, I've learnt a valuable lesson Hate gets you no where. Any way for the time beggining I'm focusing on more important stuff.
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:25 PM
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oh sweetie........i meant my comment in a positive way.....
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:33 PM
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I never hated you and never said such, and you have PMs of my support and trying to help you. That's part of the issue here, MIss_A, you rarely asked for help, but when you did we all gave you ideas and support and then you turned around and posted like you know everything, and ignored what members here were trying to help you with, and then began deliberately flaming members, I guess all in your mind of forcing DocJohn's hand. I don't believe you are the typical teenager. We are a patient group, in reality, but we all have limited patience and energy, and when another member seems to be using us, it grinds. But hate? IMO the only thing hated here was your - hating that there isn't a teen forum to play in.
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:35 PM
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Ya know what I think....and feel.....I feel kind of sad that I come on the boards and people I seem to like are in what feels like a war ...I have seen this in a few threads and areas..I feel sad that this isn't just in PM or ignore and it makes me feel like when I use to sit at the dinner table as a kid after watching and KNOWING there was a huge fight between family members and had to PRETEND not to hear the side comments or see or feel the tension.
I mean this to no one person but the PTSD has hints or in and in here and so on..seems all the areas I go to....its spilling over . Its very hard to sit and pretend I do not see and feel the fur fly. Can't we all just ignore and or get along? Or keep it in a thread ONE to slug it out and get it resolved? Maybe I am dense but this isn't good for anyone...Or Dr John could make a area to let people fight things out to fix it but I don't like to see this and cannot seem to avoid it...ITS ALL OVER PC ...I am sad to see this. You are all GOOD PEOPLE...ALL of you...remember that please
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:37 PM
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ditto
  
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:40 PM
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Yeah.. problems can't be settled or worked out in the least when members are on ignore ... no communication results in extreme reactions over time. I think a place where a MOD can take the issue with the members who are involved (private chat room?), and have like a conference to work it out, might be worth the effort? Good thinking sleeps
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:43 PM
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this may end up being the last post i ever make here but please people ENOUGH! the bickering, rudeness and nastiness has a far reaching effect on more than whoever any of you intended it for. some of us have come here looking for a safe supportive place. please think before you you hit that submit key.
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#21
Jul 10, 2005, 05:44 PM
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The "power fight" over using the ignore button.. I thought this was a support forum. I mean why put folks on ignore?? Is that what you do when IRL things bother you?? Just ignore it... Sure doesn't solve many problems pushen da ignore button... I can just see everyone putting everyone on ignore here. Dang it would be a quiet place then...
I have read things folks have written and it irked me, or pushed my button, but I have not once thought of putting anyone on ignore. I want to see what folks have to say, even if it is something I don't agree with. The variety of people is sometimes the spice of life........... |
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#23
Jul 10, 2005, 05:47 PM
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Miss_A, unfortunatly, it is you that is constantly making all the negative comments about yourself and others even as we try to show you how much we do care. I wish you well at the Teen Forums, and hope you can find there whatever it was that you could not find in here. But please, don't point fingers and blame everyone else for your departure from this forum. Some of us did nothing, or tried to help and got shut down. If you're angry I can understand that, but please, see the other side of things...people here really do care about you. The assumption that we 'never get it' or 'don't care' is just that: an assumption...and you know what they say about people who assume.
 As I've said before, I wish you the best of luck. Hope you find whatever it is that you're looking for.
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:48 PM
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For all information: when we begin to have a "problem" with another member, the mods tell us to PUT THEM ON IGNORE... and the member who is causing a "problem" begin receiving so many PMs, I guess, put's everyone who does so, trying to work things out? is put on ignore, so they refuse PMs then.
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Jul 10, 2005, 05:51 PM
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Yes Sky that is why I suggested a special area or something private or enter at you own risk area...OR ignore if need be..I agree ignore would be my last option but man this is all over PC and it;s not helpful to anyone....I think a RISKY fight it out till you get along room would be cool as I said by Dr John I would not need to go there and it could be debated till it is resolved or ..sadly not. I like you all and hate this its messin with my noggin'..
</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> _Sky said: Yeah.. problems can't be settled or worked out in the least when members are on ignore ... no communication results in extreme reactions over time. I think a place where a MOD can take the issue with the members who are involved (private chat room?), and have like a conference to work it out, might be worth the effort? Good thinking sleeps </div></font></blockquote><font class="post">
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