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Oct 01, 2005, 01:23 PM
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<font color="brown"> A few years ago at this very time, I was being married. I no longer love him and I don't want him back. He destroyed that. I just feel terribly alone.
Jan the unlovable
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Oct 01, 2005, 01:28 PM
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{{{{{ January }}}}}
Petunias think you are loveable!  And all in Lothlorien love you too! |
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Oct 01, 2005, 01:43 PM
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((((((((((Jan)))))))))))
You are lovable! You're becoming a wonderful friend to me, and I LOVE my friends.  heh hehLOVE, Jennifer
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Oct 01, 2005, 01:45 PM
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iloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyou!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Oct 01, 2005, 01:46 PM
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 January!!!!!!Tandi46 Jennifer |
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Oct 01, 2005, 01:47 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((((jan)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Oct 01, 2005, 01:47 PM
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(((((((((Jan)))))))))) You can't be unloveable. I love ya.
 So it is an impossibility.  Hope today gets better. Do something just for you today. And hey, why not watch the WVU game. I'll cheer for Tech...you cheer for...well those other people. I bet I'll be able to hear you from here.
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Oct 01, 2005, 02:02 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Jan)))))))))))))))))))))))
You are one of the most loveable people i know and you are a sweet wonderful person. and a good friend. never forget how special you truly are.
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Oct 01, 2005, 02:13 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((Jan))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Oct 01, 2005, 02:48 PM
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I think probably it is NOT that you are unlovable but that he was unloving-able.
Don't confuse the two... depression will cloud the issue. Listen to your friends here... if we all love you then it would defy the laws of physics for you to be unlovable! (((((((((((January)))))))))))))
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Oct 01, 2005, 03:55 PM
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i love you. you've been a very good friend to me. those kind aren't worth the ground they stand on. i'm very, very sorry that you were hurt. xoxox pat
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Oct 01, 2005, 03:57 PM
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I know that it may seem you are unloveable, but look at all the people here who love and care about you! Although, I was not going to be marrying someone I do have a very good idea of what you're going through. The past 6 relationships or so keep ending the same way, it's like is there something WRONG with me? But you know what there is NOTHING wrong with you it's what's wrong with THEM! *HUGS* on this difficult day.
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Oct 01, 2005, 05:26 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((( FRIENDS ))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Thank you so much for reminding me I am loved. I am so blessed to have all of you. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Love, Jan (feeling better)
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I still dream and I still hope, therefore I can take what comes today. Jan is in Lothlorien reading 'neath a mallorn tree. My avatar and signature were created for my use only and may not be copied or used by anyone else. |
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Oct 01, 2005, 05:30 PM
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(((jan))) anniversaries of all kinds are hard to forget...even when we wish so much to do so! (hmm wonder why it's so difficult for some ppl to REMEMBER any anniversary??) I think this is called "life." 'nuff said. Do something for YOU get dressed up and go out to eat a wonderful meal, see a show... "show" him and the world.. YOU ARE WOMAN!!!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
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Oct 01, 2005, 11:14 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Jan))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I love you Jan!!!! |
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Oct 01, 2005, 11:31 PM
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((((((((((Jan))))))))))))))))
We are here with you, we bear witness. As for being unlovable, I know you are feeling that, and in a sense, we just have to let that be. At the same time, let me say that I know all of us are lovable, so when we say that you -are- lovable, we know what we are talking about. ((((((((((Jan))))))))))))
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Oct 01, 2005, 11:44 PM
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(((((((((((Jan)))))))))))))
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Oct 02, 2005, 12:34 AM
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hang in there jan, you will get threw this. (((((( hugs ))))))
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Oct 02, 2005, 01:20 AM
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(((((Jan)))))
We think dexter is right, not all men (or women) are capable of loving &/or allowing themselves to be loved. The best thing about an anniversary is that it only lasts a day !!!! Hang on in there, tomorrow is another beginning, another step forward & away from an unsatisfactory experience.
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Oct 02, 2005, 01:36 AM
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Jan,
You are loveable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I if you need to......like in gradeschool.......write it over & over & over 1000 times....telling yourself " I am loveable'. You are a wonderful kind person.....& you must realize that when he ruined the love between you, he didn't deserve a wonderful person like you. I am sure I will find out just how lonely it is to be divorced once it is complete, but there are many good points to being alone...& only depending on yourself. Yes it is stressful having no one to lean on, but remember, you are better off where you are than where you were. Love yourself as we love you......you are a valuable person in this whold world....& Don't Ever Forget That. We all can not be wrong, so listen to us. ~hugz & kind wishes for you to get through this anniversary, Debbie
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Oct 02, 2005, 02:19 AM
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Nah... Depression is lying to you again! Look at all the people here that love you! Proof that Depression is a LIAR! You're more than just loveable, Jan... so much, much more!
Listen to what Dex said. He's a very wise man!!  {{{{{{{{{{{{{Jan}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
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Oct 02, 2005, 04:47 PM
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MORE *hugs*!
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