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Old May 22, 2011, 06:41 PM
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I will miss babygirl. she was my adopted sister here. (((babygirl and her friends and family)))
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Old May 22, 2011, 06:52 PM
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may all the angels in heaven lift you up to the peace you seek.
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Old May 22, 2011, 06:53 PM
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My thoughts and prayers go out to babygirl's family and friends, both irl and here. The few times I talked with her will be remembered in days ahead. May she have found the peace that she was so desperately looking for.
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Old May 22, 2011, 07:03 PM
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A permanant solution to a temporary problem... I've been with her on chat before, and at that moment I had no idea... R.I.P, you will most certainly be missed. It's just a shame that this was the way you had to go.
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Old May 22, 2011, 07:05 PM
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I am so sorry to hear about this and can not imagine the suffering babygirl must have been going through. Nor what her family and friends must be feeling. My heart goes out to her pc friends. So sad. (((((((((((((Much love))))))))))))))
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Old May 22, 2011, 07:41 PM
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I'm gunna miss you BG. We only talked a few times. I will see you again one day.
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Old May 22, 2011, 08:21 PM
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So sad to hear. ((((BG Friends & Family)))
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Old May 22, 2011, 08:44 PM
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I dont know how to put up a candle so picture it in your mind.

When I heard this news, I was very deeply moved. Many seem to think that this is an answer.

It is not an answer, it is a question. Someone had a question and I wish she found the strength to keep asking for help.

The answer would have been to keep helping her, keep trying until there really was an answer.

I only spoke to her once in a post that was trying to give her hope. I didn't know how bad she needed help. Perhaps, if I had known I would have talked more said more. I don't blame myself and I know it is not anyones fault here. I only hope that others will not think of this as an answer.

I am very sad that she felt that this was the only answer. I am sad that children will suffer. Children will wonder deep inside for the rest of their days, did she not love them enough to stay? Her whole family will never forget this and they will also claim her helplessness and despair.

Everyone who suffers like this needs to stop and think, about maybe a child or a brother or sister or mother who will never understand and live out their lives in pain.

Yes, we all feel it, that loss, no longer here. But the answer is to keep talking and coming forward until we find an answer, if you do, we will keep searching. We will not stop searching and all your questions will be ( keys) to the answer that will help others who feel like you.

My prayers are for babygirl, and the rest of her family. My prayers are for all those to keep trying and pushing for the answer, keep going and asking for help so we will keep listening and find the answer.

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Old May 22, 2011, 08:58 PM
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Babygirl, I am so sorry you had such pain. We all love and miss you. You always had a kind word for me, I wish I could have helped you more. May you have found the peace in the next life that you couldn't find in this one.

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Old May 22, 2011, 09:18 PM
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I didnt know you yet...I wish i would had, all the wonderful things people are saying about you....I pray that you have found the peace that you were looking for. Praying for those who were left behind.
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Old May 22, 2011, 10:07 PM
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i have no words.
im sorry bg.
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Old May 22, 2011, 11:42 PM
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Rest in peace, my friend, babygirl.

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Old May 22, 2011, 11:57 PM
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babygirl was someone I remember being so welcoming when I first came here. So sad that she is now gone. *hugs* to everyone.
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Old May 23, 2011, 02:43 AM
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I didn't know babygirl, but I am saddened by the news. RIP.
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Old May 23, 2011, 03:12 AM
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Not another one...

May the good Lord give you a nice place in heaven honey...

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Old May 23, 2011, 03:21 AM
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I don't have any words...

Every time I think of it....I just hear this.


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Old May 23, 2011, 06:39 AM
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Condolences to all. I trust the pain has been left behind and she can now find true happiness, free of pain and torment
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Old May 23, 2011, 06:42 PM
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Such sad news - thoughts to Babygirl's PC family and friends and her family and friends in 'the outside world'. Sleep well bg
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Old May 23, 2011, 06:52 PM
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BG, your passing hurts me.
I will use this deep pain to give myself the courage I need to make it through the dark nights.
I am so sorry this world wasn't your home.
I will be far more conscious of helping others knowing they may be you in how deeply they hurt but can't say the words.
Thank you for giving me these gifts. I will never forget you.
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Old May 23, 2011, 07:10 PM
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Erica - may you find the peace that has eluded you on this earth! You will be missed. My heart is breaking. I wish I had been able to tell you the right words to keep fighting for the contentment you so deserved. For my lack of wisdom and encouragement, I am so deeply sorry. I wish some light had shined on you while you were here!
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Old May 23, 2011, 07:49 PM
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There are so many different emotions that come up. I didn't know BG that well, but she was still a valued person to me. She was still an inspiration to me to keep going, as you all are.

I have seen the darkness, although maybe not as she saw it, and I too want to flee. Most times I'm not sure what holds me here. I think it is the knowing that if I choose to flee, I leave behind a mess of folks who will feel the way I feel now....the way we all feel now. And I would, thus far, rather suffer through one thousand hellish lives than put that misery upon someone else.

I wish things could be different.

((((( BabyGirl )))))


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Old May 23, 2011, 08:19 PM
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to erica's husband and other family and friends who cared about her...
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Old May 24, 2011, 06:47 AM
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Babygirl, I know that you are in a better place free of pain and sorrow
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Old May 24, 2011, 06:58 AM
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