family law

okay
i was 14 he was 21
already a sex offender
got me pregnant
served 6 years in prison
i have his daughter
he wont see her
i hunt him down, excuse after excuse
whatever
so.............i cant get any more child support from him
i dont want to terminatehis rights because i want to suck him dry

what else can i do

what legally can i do to him to make him jump through hoops

can i legally have him be responsible FOR ALL medical expenses
can i bill him her college

can i have his license revoked for his 20 thousand back child support bill

what can i do to make him pay for being a dead beat dad

I don't know what you can do, as I have no children and have never been in any kind of situation involving this. I just wanted to tell you to hang in there and that we are here when you need us. Oh, yeah, one more thing....

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I'm not a law expert, and of course, laws vary from place to place, but if he owes you back child support, you should definitely take him to court over that. You might even do a background check to see if there are other cases against him (perhaps by other women whom he owes child support).

I don't know if you can bill him her college; I think child support only goes till age 18, but you should ask a lawyer.

I don't think you can get his license revoked. Do you mean driver's license?

I don't know about statutes of limitations in this case, but you might have a case against him for having sex with you as a minor. That's statutory rape. And since he's a sex offender, he might get a harsher penalty than if it were a first-time offense.

I would really address these questions to a lawyer.

Wow - that's hard to say. I hesitate to chime in, since I can't claim ANY experience in your situation or law.

However, my probably-unpopular gut reaction is to drop it and create a new, healthy environment for you and your daughter, as if he never existed. The money wouldn't possibly sufficiently offset the continued emotional turmoil for me.

I can almost gaurantee that your local state's attorney would love to know about your ex. It's a great big deal in most states these days.

I know here in Missouri they will hunt them to the ends of the earth. They'll revoke driver's licences, garnish wages, do whatever it takes.

Call you family services or attorney general's office, I'm sure they'll point you in the right direction.

Good luck, and sorry you're going through this.

DJ

Don't know about Wisconsin, but here he would be liable for 1/2 school and medical. School only for four years and full time.

Like I said abouve, they will revoke licenceses, and even more drastic measures if you file the complaint. I think they look at relative economic circumstances, too.

DJ

Do you have a Dept. for Family Services? AKAThe Welfare Office? They should be able to tell you how you can attach your right to child support with the subjects's future Income Tax returns. And thru his SS. # they can track him down if he is working anywhere and DEMAND his employer take out so much of his paycheck and reroute it to you through Juvenile court. Hope he doesn't get a job which pays under the table. You can be sure he might try that! Hope this helps ya!!

LMo, I'll tell you why I disagree with that, even though I understand your point: If women let men get away with those kinds of actions, then they'll keep doing it and likely not having consequences. Plus, child support isn't for the mother, it's for the child, and the child is entitled to it.

Yeah, I know, but she said that she can't get any more child support out of him and he has served in prison. Doesn't sound like she let him get away with anything. There is vengance and then there is some kind of balance I'd have to find between getting justice and managing to raise my daughter so that she is happy. No matter how hard someone tries to conceal efforts against deadbeat dads, it makes me wonder how much better off the children are as a result.

my sons father spent alot of time bouncing in and out of prison systems before his death. I basically went to the cleks office and filed for custody. he knew with his prison background he would not be granted custody so he went with me and signed the papers. The clerks office submitted the paperwork and we recieved the custody papers in the mail. Then because I was on public assistance my caseworker petitioned the court for child support. (I could have done this on my own by going to the clerks office and filing the papers myself but since public assistance was involved I went that route). My son and I were given court appointed lawyers. For a few of the court hearings the father did not show up so finally the judge issued a warrent for police escourt to the next hearing. My sons father showed up drunk and the hearing was short and sweet. The judge asked if my son was his and after he said yes we both had to submit proof of income and bills and then we left. a month later I recieved notice in the mail as to the amount of child support and a child support hotline to call each month to varify if he paid or not. if not the court was order to garnish wages.

Also when my sons father was doing his time in prisons it was his responsibility to notify the support department that he was in prison otherwise that child support was continued adding up and he was required to pay thay back child support and if he didnt It would be garnished from his public assistance, SSI or jobs he worked at. They gave him a set time limit from the date of his release to pay it back and be on track.

He is working so I get child support. The local child support agency is of no help, in fact they are worthless. He has two other children he is paying for. He went to prison for me for six years. So He already served his time for me. He owes twenty thousand back child support. They won't throw him in jail because he "specifically said he wants to support your child" yeah.............finanical support means a lot to a nine year old. But the back child support can I file I wonder a claims action for it, seperate to the child support agency....like through court...then garnish wages from that..........like in addition to child support........they can only take so much out......ive tried......he is such a jerk

did i mention when i told him that she said to him she was sad he hasnt talked to her in four months his great reply was "I get sad to but I get over it"

Yeah......I would love his licence to be revoked.....Or hit by a big street sweeper..........

You can hire your own lawyer and he can hire his own lawyer and have child support claims done that way.

But the claim and the support amount are still kept logged as a part of the federal child support division. and either way the amount of child support handed down in court depends on the amount of income and bills both parents have. and no there is no such thing as two separate claims that I know of. everything is done by social security number so if the child support agency sees you are getting paid already they won't enforce a second claim and the same for the family court.

The back child support is sometimes separated (not as in claim but as in the father can make partial payments of the back payments and keep up with the present amount) from the present amount depending on the cercumstances but its not considered a separate claim that I know of. They just deduct so much plus the present amount until he is paid up to date.for example when my sons father got thousands of dollors behind because he didn't notify the support department he was in prison again the deducted the normal amount $10.00 extra (for the back child support) until he was paid up to date. They can only garnish so much at a time unless its a tax return and then they take the whole tax return to pay for the back child support.