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Dec 15, 2005, 06:28 PM
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Forgive me if this is in the wrong place but... need help you guys.
I found out tonight that someone that I know who I talked to online, that she just found out tonight that 2 of her kids were being molested, but the step-dad. Help! What do I do?
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Dec 15, 2005, 06:42 PM
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Sundance ~
Did you talk to her about reporting it herself? And if she cant do it herself see if she wants you to. This has to be stopped IMO . I know my mom didnt have the nerve to protect me after my dad said I was never to speak of it agian. Both my mom and I were silenced out of fear. Dont let this happen to those kids. If you know her phone number , address... get it reported . If she is mad at you ... let it be so... you have helped those kids .. innocent kids hon. Its your choice. This is just what I would do myself though. Whatever you do ... I'll be here to support you! Hugz~ Bethy
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Dec 15, 2005, 06:43 PM
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she needs to protect her children. Going to the authorities would be my first step. Oh...and throwing the bum OUT.
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Dec 15, 2005, 06:56 PM
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I don't know where she lives she lives in the UK, so I don't have an address or phone number. I have a link to an IP locator that you punch in their IP Address and it shows you the city, etc.. but not a direct address....She is in complete shock an doesn't know what to do, she knows that she has to kick him out, I told her she need to phone the police, but I don't know if she will. I only know her through being online.... She is so scared etc, I don't think that she can even think straight, her boy just came up to her tonight....
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Dec 15, 2005, 07:11 PM
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UPDATE:
Talking to her now, she is sending her husband for help, her mom I believe is contacting the authorites.
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Dec 16, 2005, 12:08 AM
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The first thing to do is call the police. The second thing to do is charge the SOB. If she doesn't do that I doubt the children will see it as supporting them. Just my opinion.
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Dec 16, 2005, 12:48 AM
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i've had too many incest victims in group therapy. make sure she does the right thing. it scars the victims forever and ever.
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Dec 16, 2005, 04:01 AM
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<font color="#008800">In today's climate she could be charged as an accessory if she doesn't report it. </font>
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Dec 16, 2005, 09:49 AM
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Her mom reported it last night, he left the house, she booted him out. Her mom came down and they were waiting for the cops... I haven't heard anything today, she may not be online for a couple days because of the kids... she has 5 and one in the oven....
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Dec 16, 2005, 12:45 PM
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Sundance,
You did a wonderful job of getting good advice and in helping her make her decisions. You have helped those children more than words can say. Great job! Jan
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