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Old Jun 09, 2006, 11:18 AM
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yet another death around me. a long time friend was killed night before last. we were just at his father in laws funeral at easter. you know I think we need to let the ones we care about know daily that we care. we are never assured of tomorrow. time quickly passes and in the twinkling of an eye life is gone. I feel so lost.
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 11:23 AM
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((((((((((elaine)))))))) I am sorry for your loss.
I wish I didn't understand, but between hubby and I we have lost five loved ones in the past two years, the last one a friend of over 30 years just a few months ago.. It is so hard and you are right.. I am so glad that each of them knew how I felt and I try with those around me. But geez you never know and I sure can't stay in touch daily with everyone I know..
So my condelences to you and the family and take care of yourself Elaine... Linda
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 11:23 AM
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 11:25 AM
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Linda thank you! this is number 10 or so for us since November. I just hate to hear my phone ring anymore.

Fuzzy thanks honey.
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 11:27 AM
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 11:28 AM
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That is so true, so very true. Besides the loss of family members, 911 changed things even more, with me.
From a sad experience(s) sometimes valuable things are learned, and I have found even strangers at shops,on the street, and other public places more friendly and eager to chat compared to the times before the tragedy of 911.
I am very sorry for you and his family of this terrible loss, I send y'all wishes and prayers for healing,love, and may good memories,good times help soften the harshness of losing someone dear.
Love to you and yours,
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 11:32 AM
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bunny thanks for the bumps hon

Roe you are right! everyone I come in contact with for the most part are much nicer than they use to be.
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 12:57 PM
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(((((((((((bebop)))))))))))) I'm so sorry. I'll add you to my prayer list!

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{{{{{{{{{{Elaine}}}}}}}}}}}}} I'm so sorry so much has been happening to you!

You are so right! We DO need to let our loves ones know daily how we feel about them! Less regrets later.

You're in my thoughts and prayers. a friend passed
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 01:09 PM
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candy thank you hon! and you and your family are on mine as well
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 01:11 PM
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tomi thanks hon. I have had many deaths the last few months and this one was a complete shock! family and friends are all we really have in life. thanks for being here for me thru them all.
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 01:36 PM
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So sorry bebop, and you are right, as much as we can let our loved ones know they matter.
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 01:53 PM
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 02:04 PM
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Hi Elaine,

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Ever since my brother died suddenly when he was only 38, I've made it a habit to tell my friends and family when I speak to them that I love them.

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Old Jun 09, 2006, 02:19 PM
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((((((((((((((( Be ))))))))))))))))

I am so sorry for your loss. You are very right about telling those we love how we feel. I knew it, but really learned in January that tomorrow might never come.

(((((((((((((( Friend & family ))))))))))))))

Prayers are being sent for you and your friend's family.

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Hello Elaine, Condolences to you and your family and friends....it is so hard when death keeps sourronging us.... I know the deal with the phone.... it is like a curse when my rings I get chest pain and start to panic.... you take good care of yourself...... Keeping you in my thoughts.... Lilith
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Old Jun 09, 2006, 03:53 PM
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EJ luv u too hon

Jan you are a special person to me too as so many here are.

Lilith thank you so much.
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thanks ozzie

sky thank you so much for that beautiful rose!!
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Prayers are on the wing to you , your friend is with you and always will be just look at the sky look at every little living thing and your friend is shining in it
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Old Jun 10, 2006, 01:03 AM
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Angie thank you so much. I just got back from his viewing. I am so heart broken. His wife is in pretty bad shape emotionally and I feel so helpless. Such a tragic thing to happen and he was only 54.
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a friend passed I'm sorry bebop.

That sucks. Much love and many (good) thoughts to you.

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((((bebop)))) if ok.. i am so sorry.. will keep you in my pr*yers..

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