Goodbye

Hi all, I was new here and I still had people responding and try to help. THANK YOU ALL VERY MUCH.
However, I am going to stop coming to this site. As some of you probably understood from my other posts, I am in a pretty desperate place right now in my therapy and in a more personal level, so it might be best to withdraw from everything -- especially from any type of human interaction -- otherwise I will be end up seem as a very selfish and ever complaining person as I can only look at my own problems right now, and probably that is how is going to be for a loong time.
I AM SORRY!! I am sooo very lost.
Also, sorry to those I did not answer -- especially for the PM I did not answer. Thank you, Teck.
Thank you all.

I was sorry to read your post but I hope everthing goes well for you if you do ever want to chat were here for you or you can PM if you want to

Take Care

I was sorry to hear you are leaving...You know there are alot of people on here who never post or never give responses....yet they are helped just by reading and seeing all the warmth on here...I hope you come back when you are ready...good luck to you!!!!

I'm so sorry that you wnt to leave...
You don't have to go away completely... Like Bethsway said, you don't always have to post...

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otherwise I will be end up seem as a very selfish and ever complaining person

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> We wouldn't think that of you. We are encouraging you to speak up and get it out of your system. You don't have to go, and you don't have to be the image of 'popular'. You are accepted for the valuable person you are.

People here at Pc understand that you are going through a rough patch right now, so we dont expect you to help others. you main priority in life is to heal yourself, and if PC is helping then id advise for you to stick at it. we honestly dont mind that you dont help others, there are many here that are in your situation. and its completely fine. i understand what you are going through and i understand that you cant help others, you have to feel good in yourself to be able to do that.

you need to do what is best in the long run for yourself, and if you truly believe leaving PC would be it, then i am sorry to see you go. i wish you all the best and i really do hope to see you return one day when things are easier.

i wish you werent going, you are a credit to this site, and you will be missed.

if the only thing that is making you want to leave is because you feel you are selfish for not helping, then you cant be more wrong, its not selfish, and at the end of the day, that is why this forum, this community is here, to help those who need help. and then when you are feeling better, that is when you return it if you wanted. you will never be classed as selfish, not in my eyes and not in anyones eyes here. far from it infact.

take care of yourself and i am sorry to say goodbye.

simon

Please do what YOU need to do for YOU - no one else (and) know that the door to PC is always open for YOU to return.

Take-Care and Best Wishes in your Recovery & Healing.... ((( hugs )))


LoVe,
Rhapsody -

i hope you find whatever you need. You might try giving us a second chance here. I hope you find all the compassion and love you need and deserve

You must do what you need to for self care, but somehow I don't think withdrawing from all social contact is a good answer. You say you are going to be selfish and whining about yourself for a long time... but how can you know this unless you plan this? I know you feel it might be forever, therapy often does when you begin to work.

I hope you will reconsider coming to PC. You are why it's here... for all of us to come when we are out of sorts...WHILE we learn how to live more abundantly. If you wish, you can limit your posting to one or two forums, and if you use chat, then the usual rule of read more than you type could make you feel better perhaps about now absorbing everyone's time. What do you think?

I hope you share your feelings with your T, and get T's advice too But TC in all ways.

Awww I will miss you. It is sad to loose a member. Why don't you drop KD, Lmo or Doc John a PM to let them know so if you want your account can be deleted. Good luck on your future ventures! Sarah

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i hope you will consider coming back to PC when you feel up to it. this is a place where you not only can give support but get it as well. sometimes we aren't always in a place to give it and that's fine. you are always welcome here. please don't ask for your account to be deleted, just come when you can. you will be in my thoughts.

Good point there I was not sure if she was returning somewhere in the future or gone for good. It sounded like gone for good.