Sad look attracts bad talk?

But you have to sleep, right? They disturb my sleep. So do ppl.

i mean to ask, mean to be answered.

I go nights without sleep.....but then I get so exhausted I crash for 24 hours....& now getting back into more normal sleep cycle.

You are the only one who can control who bothers you....& if it's mental illness then you NEED to get the help since no one else will advocate for you & no one can fix the problems that you are experiencing without professional help.....sometimes you have to FIGHT the system including the parents even if it's not accepted in your culture.

yes, i'd fight the sick minded in huge amount to get myself cured.
my appreciation indeed for filling me in with this much of info, as i said, it's just an amount thing,.

Try to champion yourself and be your own hero.
stephanie

never easy, miz, never easy

i need help, family forbid me, the society grants it. actually, i just need a rest. and the bias in ppl that you have been sent to mental hospital, even you were wrongly sent, ppl have the bias, and i don't get understanding even from some really kind ppl. pls, i am so painful, so painful. i just lost a friend, just lost a friend. she doesn't understand it.
her QQ name （封爱）爱心使者

Ok....I'm confused....you were sent to the mental hospital & yet when you got out your parents refused to get you the help you need once you got out of the hospital. Didn't the hospital talk with your parents & tell them what your needs are?

I had a physician's assistant from China & when talking about the experience I had when my mom was dying of cancer, she said that in china they don't tell the patient.....they tell the family about the patient's condition......so I'm wondering why your parents weren't told regarding your condition what treatment you need?

i believe i told you. just 2 different planets. hospital doctors don't talk with you, just precribe meds and get you hopitalised, for medicare in china profits on its own, it's a businese in china.

How are you today, cusack10?

I am sorry that things have been hard for you. I hope you can remember that everyone around you is not always right.

And yes, when one looks sad, people react to that. Sometimes they are concerned - they worry about you, since you look sad. It is horrible to be treated badly for being sad, though.

Try and do things that don't make you sad - like exercise, playing a game, drawing, or playing with pets.

thank you codetta, we have to hang on, slow the pace the world fall to evil, in the means of doing so, we have to rely tight on each other of which are positive strength, so get in touch, any of you in here.

Come on, eskie, twenty years of being treated as a psychiatry patient, i never hurt a single person, and never had a serious talk as in here, for all they do, my family and society, is keeping me from it. defly NOT INTERNAL.

When ever Ive tried to walk tall, or with confidence, I somehow came across as a hooker or defiant and still ended up getting beat up.

Did he tell you when ppl are passing away, hospital in profiting and family members in society rituals often go against the elders' will of dying naturally, enforce the devices rescue that cause a greater painful death.something above science or reasoning in effect.
It's hard to describe for you to believe, but i need to say it, it's largely not me, it's that i am ahead of times, ......like van gogh. I have something in chinese ready for this current world, 1,my description about my problems, some are blinded by ppl in mind as i said here, some "problem" is new even to now knowledge, but easy to be understood through experience at one's kindness and willingness to experience .2, my probe on how one thinks, big deal, imo, 3,a pratical one, i found the method to learn english. the method is in my head, certainly need some conditions to unfold to mastering. believe me, they are very useful if they meet or be transformed to the language of the current society or time, right now i am just dying out with them.
ahead needs quantity to retrack, quantity of your positivity, too few of them right now.
i don't know if you have friends in china could pay some visits to me, sounds absurd, but it's it for this dying reality.

Can somebody pick me up and leave rotten china?!

ok, no prob, Bob!

alright, guys, i managed to leave my mom's. rent a room. yeah, i have learned a bit on how to socially talk, but i don't know how to dress really, no one ever taught me about that, my clothes are from my mom's buy, which are i think quite out dated to what the ppl in my age wear, so what is the point in dressing.

just so fcked up by the ppl, badly talked about in streets due to my sad look for long, tough to start a job. trying to get some fun, add in some joy, seem no where to get them

the truth is i don't know a lot about social, i am ready to learn and i am able to get it, but there's no peace and room left right now for me to do that.

fk, still no help.
i tried to work, but ppl talk bad about you even though you work.
they *****ing about my nervous look, but how can i relax if they keep *****ing all time. sry, my english is getting poor. just no rest, no sleep. they mean to kill. it's men bithing most of time, women are show some sympothy to me. thought lost.

at work with others, just no topic in common, they talked about family, friends, and the fun with, they tend to play and work, and i got nothing, though i got good ideas and indepth thoughts to make a better life, but they don't need them, they want to have fun, with their family and friends.

These ppl just want to talk me dead. Even now they talk sh.it under my window when passing. They never shame of their degraded acts. They are proud of it. Be ware if you came china, ppl are worse than sh.it.

This happens similarly to me as well. Im sorry you're having this happen to you. I spend a lot of time "daydreaming" so I get quiet. People can sense sensitivity, I swear. Most of the time they respond by trying to do damage without even realizing it. It takes awhile, but to survive you have to be rough on the outside. I've been called "intimidating" because of this. I'm a bowl of jello on the inside, by nature. Have you tried focusing more introvertedly within yourself?

i am so sorry for your situation. i hope you feel better and it's great you got your own place too.

I don't get attacked per se, but people do say I look "scared". This is mostly by men but other people have noticed it as well. I think I am socially awkward and as far as men...well been burned too many times so no wonder.