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Apr 28, 2007, 05:24 PM
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One of my good friend's son is getting married in June and I was invited to the shower today. I am glad I was able to go and meet Julia but other than that I could have spent my time doing something else I think. I felt very out of place and sat and watched Julia open her presents for awhile and talked to another friend's mom and left. I don't know why I felt compelled to go. I got depressed after leaving because John David is just getting out of college and bam he will be married. By the time the couple is my age they probably will have a couple of kids and be all happy. What have I got at my age NOTHING!!!! I have no one to love like that...I have no kids. All my life all I have wanted is to be married and to be a mom. Doesn't look like either one is going to happen. So all my life I have been wanting something that will never happen what good has that done me?
Yes I'm having a pity party right now but gosh darn I think I deserve it. Jbug
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Apr 28, 2007, 05:25 PM
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Never say never, lady.
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Apr 28, 2007, 06:41 PM
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awwww (((buggie))))
Don't you realize that statements and feelings like this :Yes I'm having a pity party right now but gosh darn I think I deserve it. only make you feel worse? Pity parties just aren't what they're cracked up to be. A few moments of reflection, yeah, but not a whole party.  We all have our crosses to bear. Our life seems more difficult when what it is is NOT what we expected.  Things rarely turn out just the way we wanted (and sometimes that is such a good thing  There are other ways to find enjoyment. But, imo, it includes putting aside what might have been. Contentment is not a given, we have to work at it. 
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Apr 28, 2007, 08:21 PM
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Janniebug, I am so sorry that things haven't worked out the way you wanted. I hope they will in the future. I'll bet you would be a great mom.
(((((((((((((((((Janniebug)))))))))))))))))))
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Apr 28, 2007, 11:49 PM
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Thanks guys. I am just in a bad mood today I guess. I did something huge today though and I'm proud of that but for the most part this week hasn't been a good week.
Thanks for the encouragement guys. Jbug
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