Is this normal?

It didnt go very well. I didnt even get to bring it up to him. I need to make it a process over time. I need to find the right and natural way to start get out of it.

The easist way would be to tell him I have met someone. Then there is nothing he can say. He chose himself to leave and lose me, so he has nothing to complain about if I told him I have met someone.

little steps, that's all we can do x

Is there a chiropractic licensing board that you can call to get an answer to your question?

Yes that is true

Hi Permacultural, I dont know. I tried ask two places online but they didnt want to answer me it seemed. I guess its not a normal question.

The chiropractor seem to have stopped the smacking. I dont know why.
He seems to be very toned down. I guess I m too. Maybe he have had thoughts about it and found that maybe its best to stop it.

I am starting to get to the end of my treatments.

maybe he's worked out that your attracted to him and he doesn't want to lead you on? perhaps he's a thoughtful guy.

Yes it can be like you say, lowin. I have been thinking that thought too.

I do think he is a really good guy.

good luck

Thank you, avlady.

Perhaps that's why you like him, oh well there be other good guys you will meet eventually. Perhaps this chiropractor already has a partner?

I have always attracted the bad men and the unavailable men. My chiropractor is married and seems like a very good man, but he too is an unavailable one.

Thats my bad luck. But I think and hope one day I will meet a man who is both nice and available.

One cannot give up hope.

same here x

I posted a smile to you same day you had answered me and now I couldnt find it. I understand now my smile reply may have been to short. I am sorry I have not been aware of that.

I send you a new , lowin, and a to you!

awww thanks tearsinabottle, that's lovely x

You have been so supportive of me, lowin thank you so much for that.

no worries, you seem lovely x

thank you, so do you

thank you x

Sounds like he's getting sexually aroused by touching you all over. A human response of course but professionally he can't or doesn't want to control it. He's waiting to see if you give him a further invitation. You should say something or leave. He will of course give you a bull chit answer. Just let him say it without reply.

Hi kreg, yes maybe he liked it some way. It seemed like that to me when I looked at his face that one day to see if he was serious or enjoying it.

But now he has stopped it. He may have figured out it may have been a bit unproffesional and figured out I am attracted to him.

I dont think he was waiting for an invitation as the man is married. Since he is married he would know I couldnt say anything to him. And If I did I would look like I had no respect for myself.

If the man was available and not married though I would have waited for him to make an invitation

About abusers...Before I was thinking I could change an abuser into a loving caring soul, that he would be cured with my love. I know today that one cannot change someone else. Specially not a narcissist or psychopath. One can only change oneself and chose new healthy patterns. I have learned to read red flags and flee from bad men.

One do not need to chase a man. Today I like to hold on to the belief in the lines..that if a man wants you he will make it happen. I am then talking about the good men out there I believe my chiropractor is a very good man and his wife is a very lucky woman.

It may seem a bit contradictory to say since he is married but slapped me slighly. This is because I still dont know if the slap was normal or not.

Well Tears, my friend, I don't know how old, experienced you are. Sounds like not much so I'll tell you about men in general. and many women. Like I said it's human nature to be sexually attracted to any female-and you said you were attracted to him didn't you? Possibly he picked up on that. Now because he touches many women he will build up a sexual desire over time and I don't care how much of a God fearing Bible toting man he claims to be. Human nature overrides all that. It's the ingrained procreation drive thing. Church folks won't agree I'm sure. Many men, and women if they think they can get away with it will go for it married or not. and with a woman or man married or not. I know this from many years of talking to other men and seeing it happen. Like I said his sexual tension has built up and now you show up. If there is any invitation at all he will have to fight to resist because of his accumulated build up of desire. Don't believe what you are saying about bad men good men and the same for women. And how about this-if you knew a man was not married and you found him attractive what is this nonsense about waiting for him to come to you with an invitation? What a load of crap. Don't be shy. Just go up and in a polite respectful manner say "I know you are not married and I find you to be an interesting person I would like to get to know better. Would you care to meet for lunch or coffee?" There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. and if he says yes then ask when? In a day or so and ask for his phone number and give yours. If he holds back take that as a sign he may be hiding something and don't cling to the situation. You seem like an interesting person and if you'd like to stay in touch that would be nice and we could exchange private messages here. I don't know where you are. I'm in midwest USA.

Hey Tears, I see you are in Norway. I have relatives there. I think they are further North. They were here this past summer for a couple weeks a young man and a woman-cousins of mine-tall people! It was really nice to see them. They stayed with my sister in southern Iowa and went down to Oklahoma to my nieces ranch-they got money! I guess they enjoyed baking in the hot sun! It's in southern USA. They spoke English well. I would love to see Norway but I would have a hard time with the language I think. My grandfather was Knute Brudevold and married my grandma Mary Jorgensen who was Danish. Then I'm English Irish German and Dutch.