Self forgiveness for liking mean men

I have ****** taste in men then instead of admitting that I do things for people who don't deserve me I instead projected it on the entire gender. Not just wrong but ill-informed I can't justify hating an entire gender when only a few hurt me with their stupidity. I don't even want to tell you exactly what happened because I was 17 or 18 when I did it but whatever I don't want to be carrying that self-hatred and anger anymore. The point is he didn't care he was a **** I can move on there are actually good men on that won't waste my time. This is the age of self forgiveness.

There are wonderful men out there. If you want a relationship at some point, remember your post above. It sounds like you have a lot of insight!

I think almost anyone sensitive (such as myself) not only beats up themselves but also blocks people out,especially if its the same sex of the one who hurt you.But all people are different & there are good men out there,Just as I tell myself there are good women out there.
I hope you can find someone who is truly good to you.