Crashed and burned and PM?

Sorry I have not been around for about a month or two. When my cat had to be PTS it threw me really bad. I am still a mess and just not sure I did the right thing Tonight I went and emailed a T I use to see and got a memory is full message back

So many things are crashing in on me and I am wondering too if when I think I will be gone for over say 6 weeks , should I shut my pm's off ? Do you think I will look less rude? I am wondering if that may bother people and maybe that is why I am not too well liked on here. Please let me know your take on when to shut pm off so I have some idea of what is expected here...Thank you ahead and sorry I am such a mess. Its been a lot of work holding a job I work over 12 hrs a day at and dealing with my guilt and grief

{{{PasDeDeux}}}

I am so sorry for the grief you are going through. I wouldn't worry about anyone else too much right now (I know easier said than done). All that matters is you are on your way to recovering and being healthy.

Missed ya!
Dee

im so sorry about your cat pasdedeux. that is heartbreaking. we lost our dog about 6 weeks ago and it hurts so much even though she went by herself thank god. whether your can needed to be PTS right then or not s/he is at peace now and in no pain and s/he knows you loved him/her. you did what you believed was best.
im afraid i dont know about the pms but just wanted to say i feel for you.
take good care
biiv

(((PASDEDEUX))). I am sorry for your loss and the trauma that you are going through at this time. It is Okay to feel guilt from having to put your cat to sleep. Your cat was a family member and the loss is sometimes as deep as losing a person in the family. Loss is a very confusing and devastating issues especially when you are already dealing with stressors and triggers such as working 12 hours a day. It is good that you are trying to get in contact with a therapist for help to get through the problems you are having at this time. I hope that you will persevere in the future in talking to someone professionally that can help you move on in your life. I frankly think you had your cat put to sleep because it was the most humane way of ending the suffering for your cat, even though the loss is tremendous you DID the right thing and made the correct decision. Life and Death issues are never easy but at least you are trying to get the help you need to be able to move forward. Take care. I hope things get better for you soon. Soidhonia

(((((((((PasDeDeux))))))))))))

You do what you have to. I've disappeared and turned off my PMs without telling anyone. Sometimes we all just need a break.

I'm sorry about your T's email. That would be so heartbreaking.

As for PMs ... PM me anytime. I like hearing from you.