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All I keep hearing is people who just keep talking about a 40+ chat area. While i have the most deep respect for them i just need to say something then i will shut up. I am turning 20 coming up sept. 17...while this is a big step for me....others see it as eh...not a big deal....i have been through alot in my life....in fact people make the joke that ive already had menapause at age 12....and now im looking to retire
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Hey Inny - you definitely do not need a fast forward button - thankfully you have a lot of space between your age and 40 to have lots of time for better things to happen in your life. Personally, I'm over 40 but I have no problem hanging out with adults under 40, in fact, because I chose a career path and not a "family" type path I have more in common with the under 40 crowd since I do not have kids (3 dogs and 3 cats) and I have never had a husband (long time bf but we still do our own things), and while I bought my first house a few years ago it was not because I wanted it - I needed it for the dogs and cats! A friend told me that he figured the reason I put off having a house so long was because I figured somehow the noose around my neck that is the mortgage finally made me an "adult." As I think about, probably over half of my close friends are under 40. So, don't despair - I am sure most of us old geezers over 40 would not want to exclude you from any chat.
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inny hon I have never had an issue with you being in any chat. yes you are very mature. I haven't seen an over 40 room mentioned here in awhile now but I don't read all the forums either.
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thank you both. I appreciate your kind words. In fact it is mentioned in a post here in general, thats why i kinda snapped. I apologize. I had just had a whole day of people making me feel incompetent and when i read it i felt even more incompetent in holding a conversation.
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there was a thread I think at the beginning of summer but that is pretty normal here. I hope you are feeling better.
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Hi Inny,
I don't have an issue with your age! You have great experience on with which to draw. Also, you happen to be my kids' age so you are more helpful to me than ever! I'm truly sorry you felt hurt by this. I guess "age-ism" is just as hurtful as sexism. Again, please accept my apologies. I don't know what post you are referring to, but I know I was yucking it up with Septie the other night and we were joking about age, so if that was the post, I'm sure sorry! Take care, Okie
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its ok okie.
thank you for your kind words. and i am feeling much better bebop thank you also for your consideration. i just want everyone to be able to support each other in a nice considerate way and sometimes i feel everyone gets so wrapped up in society that we forget who we truly are and become something everyone else expects us to see. I have always been something that is not normally portrayed at my age group, never have been and i guess never will be. And it has always been others who judge me on my peers and that has what helped make my life soo difficult. Thats why no one believed me that my step father abused me or my mother verbally and mentally abused me, they thought since i was a teenager i was making things up, that i had done something like stayed out to late to deserve something, when in fact all i did was want to read a book and go to school and work two jobs inbetween. And to this day i still battle with others because no one believes me that i just wanted to be allowed to be quiet and alone ...i would present ideas in school and was laughed at and my teachers would pull me aside and say that i was wise beyond my years and they have not caught on just yet. No one seems to understand that age discrimination is as just as dangerous and invalid as racism...but those are just my thoughts. thank you again love, inny
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