[Mystry]

...that basically all I was looking for was sympathy and attention...I'm ashamed to admit that it's true...everything I write is geared towards peoples sypathies...why????? I was thinking that I could add this bit of garbage to the rest of the garbage and what do I have...alot of garbage...BUT...I've come to the conclusion that I have friends here that care about me and no matter how much of a whinner I am they will still care about me...I remember therealme leaving a post to this affect or something similar (I apologize therealme if I've misqouted you) anyway my point is that my hats don't fit because of my pointy head...wait that wasn't my point...my reasoning is this...that every single one of us on this planet needs some sort of sympathy...it's a human trait and if it isn't then it should be because none of us here and all around us are ever 100% sure of ourselves and our choices...and if you were to ask me in an hour about this subject my answer would surely change...like a soft warm breeze on a summer night I change...thankyou for letting me continue to seek sympathy and love and friendship from the people who know what it's like...

Mystry

[SeptemberMorn]

{{{{{{{{{{{{Mystry}}}}}}}}}}}}}} You are SO right! We all need empathy and attention. "No man is an island!" Some of us don't have any problem asking outright for what we want or need... some of us do. Some of us have learned to keep our mouth shut. Some of us have learned other methods to get what we need.

So... if you've been told that all you want is attention, how much simpler can it get? Why don't they give it to you? EEEESH!

[Raynaadi]

(((( Mystry ))))

I agree that we all seek love and support from our friends. And that is why this site is here.

Take care of you and don't hold back asking help from trusted friends.

~Rayna

[nothemama8]

Mystry, I don't see you as a whinner, we all need support here or we wouldn't be here right, you (everyone) need that human interaction to survive, if ya feel the need to whine DO IT, any complainers remember you too need support
Angie

[Mystry]

I am surprised all the time when people actually reply to my ravings but it is food for the soul and I thank all of you for joining me at the supper table...

[SeptemberMorn]

I sure like the way you put things! So poetic!

I try so hard to hide it when inside I am screaming out for notice and sympathy ....

My dear friend, I really hope that what was said to you was said in a caring way because you rarely post and you often just post in CC corner so I don`t see how this person can see this in you.

Yes we all need sympathy, love and understanding. There is nothing wrong with that. You keep posting my friend.

(((((((((((Mystry)))))))))))

Love=Life
A society=Several persons together

To build a community you need people... without love- no real life... then no community either.

We have to look after each other and show the compassion we all need and are entiled to.

(((((((((((((( Lyle )))))))))))))))))

I care, Lyle! You're a guy who's been through so much in life... it might not show so much on the outside... but on the inside it's a totally different story. We shouldn't judge others unless we've walked in their shoes... which we never have done and never will do. Your pain is real.

[January]

Mystry,

Psych Central is a place for support. All of us need help or sympathy at some point. I don't know who said that to you but I hope it was in a much kinder manner than it sounds.

Hugs,

Jan

[Soidhonia]

Hello (((MYSTRY))). It is good to see you posting in the forums to express that you do need support from others not only at Psych Central, but also in real life. Hopefully in time you can stop demanding attention, and feel confident in just asking for the support you need to help you move forward in life. It is good to have you here Mystry and sharing you life with you. Take care and best wishes. Soidhonia

[Fuzzybear]

I agree with Rayna, we all seek love and support from our friends.

((((((((((((( Mystry )))))))))))))

your fuzzy friend


PS the last I heard it was ok to post as much or as little as we need to

It doesn't sound to me, PERSONALLY, that this person was being sympathetic or supportive to you. Just MY opinion.

Also, like someone said in another thread, we really don't know each other very well here............. so the saying about walking a mile certainly would apply.

[Fuzzybear]

[Fuzzybear]

lyle.....what an excellent post! you are an awesome guy and i will always be here for you.........

[(JD)]

There are thousands of members here.. .if you only receive one or a few negative comments.... that's terrific!!!

Remember, many speak from their own issues and it has nothing to do with us.
The best we can do is consider what truths might be in what they say, and be better the next time.

((((hugs)))

[Christina86]

What would I do without another Canadian buddy?

(((((((((((Lyle))))))))))))))

I like you, don't worry if you're a bit attention-seeking, I know I am at times.

[Fuzzybear]

I'll have to remember that, thanks oh wise Sky!