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Old Jul 09, 2017, 08:48 AM
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Am I the only person in this world who is so ****ed up they deserve nothing but hurt, probably.

I don't care any more.
I'm nothing
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 08:57 AM
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I don't think you deserve hurt. You're a caring, worthy individual.
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 09:00 AM
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Thank you, I'm surprised you think this.
I've been one of the most hated individuals I've ever known
And hopefully soon my time will be done, I've suffered enough.. surely
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 09:04 AM
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Someone taught you this.

Maybe they are wrong. Maybe they told you this out of their own sense of misery. To compensate for their own feelings, to revenge themselves on somebody...

They clearly hold you in considerable esteem, to find so important that they want to wound you...
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 09:12 AM
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Someone taught you this.

Maybe they are wrong. Maybe they told you this out of their own sense of misery. To compensate for their own feelings, to revenge themselves on somebody...

They clearly hold you in considerable esteem, to find so important that they want to wound you...
Thank you, maybe this makes sense

I'm so tired of the cruelty in this world. So many people are ........
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 09:49 AM
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Fuzzybear, what's going on that brought on these feelings? You are one of the most positive supportive people here at PC. You are most definitely do NOT deserve to hurt!
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 09:51 AM
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Fuzzy, I'm so sorry you're going through this. No one deserves abuse--especially you. You're not hated here, I can tell you that. Okay?
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 10:04 AM
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(((Fuzzy))) thank you for the lovely pics you send me and others on here - you cheer our days, I know you are liked here.

I hope that these sad thoughts will diminish and you will have happier ones.

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Old Jul 09, 2017, 10:54 AM
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Hi Fuzzy

No question in my mind whatsoever- you do not/did not deserve all that hurt
And you are far from nothing- you matter a great deal
Those people who have hurt you in the past- well that has been about them, not about you.........about their lack of feelings or their lack of empathy or their not really knowing you or their problems or their ignorance or their.............but not about you.
And the hurt you're going through now..........well we're here for you Fuzzy, if/when you want talk..........for now, sending you hugs

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Old Jul 09, 2017, 02:46 PM
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You don't deserve to hurt. Your abusers told you that.

You're a kind, sweet, caring sort of bear. You matter to me and a lot of other people here.

I wish I could meet you there and we'd go out for salmon
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 05:25 PM
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Well I myself like you even if you insist noone else does, you're a wonderful person!!
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Old Jul 10, 2017, 06:10 PM
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Am I the only person in this world who is so ****ed up they deserve nothing but hurt, probably.


I don't care any more.

I'm nothing


Ahhhh Am I the only person This hurts my heart Fuzzy. You absolutely don't deserve to be hurt! You are a beautifully unique individual who is special because you are you. No one else in this whole world can claim the same thing. No one can be you.
Yes, you're right. People can be... sigh! Ughhh.... so hurtful. But it's my experience that the more hateful they are, the more they actually hate themselves. They are merely translating this hate onto you. It helps to view these ones with pity. Don't allow their toxic behaviour in your life, but view them at arms length with pity and compassion.

And also, give yourself some compassion. If your best and dearest and oldest friend came to you and said they were worthless, what would you say?
I'm sure you would have compassion and love for them.
Now imagine YOU are your dearest and oldest friend. Try to treat yourself with the same compassion and love. Am I the only person
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Old Jul 10, 2017, 06:16 PM
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(((((fuzzywuzzy)))))

i second everything said here, you are more special than you know and don't deserve to be hurt
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Old Jul 13, 2017, 10:13 PM
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oh fuzzybear, what a lovely name, beautiful, I'm new to PC, but by the responses given you are well liked and loved here, I'm guessing that obviously someone very close to you has done or said something very mean, anyway, whatever has triggered these feelings, please don't let them take you down. Take heart dear fuzzybear, I just love your name, your name alone as done me wonders today, I'm a huge animal lover........hugs to you fuzzybear....
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