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Oct 12, 2007, 09:46 PM
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I hate fighting, and I feel like I'm losing people close to me. I don't like to think that I screwed everything up, but I think this time it really was my fault. What is it about me that seems to drive people away? I really wish this wasn't happening to me right now. I'm over-stressed all the time, I just want things to go back to normal already. I want to have my friends back. It's hard to try and fix multiple problems at once...and I just wish that things will be ok for once.
"If you try to chase two rabbits at once, you end up losing them both."
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Oct 12, 2007, 11:04 PM
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(((((((((((( mandazzle ))))))))))))
So sorry things are difficult for you right now. It's not easy to say what is behind all the troubles you are going through but I know that working on more than one issue at a time can be totally overwhelming. Maybe what you need to do is work on one issue at a time....pick one thing that you want to improve and work on it. Many times, what happens after doing that is that you feel good about accomplishing that one thing and it gives you the strength and ability to work on the next thing that needs help. Remember too, you only have control over how you react to things in your life. You cannot control other people's responses. But, if you control yourself in a positive manner, folks around you will begin to respond positively to you. Wishing you well!! Hugsss sabby |
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Oct 13, 2007, 01:59 AM
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 >>>>> (((((( MANDA )))))) >>>>>>>>> You already know wish on 2 stars and you might get 1 wish,,,,,,,,,  >>>>>> Wish for those things that are constant................... Then find a way to make it back,,,,,,,,, to the place that you feel you Lack,,,,,,((((( Hugs ))))) to you BUDDY always there and I will care ( a random person on line )>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>     
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Oct 13, 2007, 05:51 AM
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I agree, it can be overwhelming to have too many things all happening at the same time. I really don't know what is going on with your relationships with those around you, but know that I care.
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Oct 13, 2007, 01:21 PM
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it is hard to hang on, but try... it will be worth your effort...
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Oct 13, 2007, 06:14 PM
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Mandazzle, I don't know the particulars of the situation, but if you're sure you did something you wished you hadn't and feel it necessary, then apologize. That's it. Don't go overboard, you're human. If you are stressed and acted out, or such, then yeah, say so. If it's something that wasn't under your control, don't feel guilty but you might express to those you fear you've pushed away, that you "wish things had gone differently, how can "we" fix it?"
Otherwise, learn from it and go on.  TC
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