Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #26  
Old Jul 21, 2018, 10:48 AM
-jimi-'s Avatar
-jimi- -jimi- is offline
Jimi the rat
 
Member Since: Dec 2008
Location: Northern Europe
Posts: 6,316
A hippy dippy therapist might be good for someone who just wants to stray mindlessly in their own mind, but for someone who has real problems... NO!
__________________

advertisement
  #27  
Old Jul 31, 2018, 04:42 AM
Bongo2015 Bongo2015 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: United Kingdom
Posts: 49
Hi all, just a little update. I now have another councillor who I am seeing for the first time this afternoon. Thought it was next week lol. Hopefully she will be better and more understanding than the last one!
Hugs from:
*Laurie*
Thanks for this!
*Laurie*
  #28  
Old Jul 31, 2018, 09:48 PM
mugwort2 mugwort2 is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Aug 2015
Location: Philadelphia PA.
Posts: 1,291
I agree with Laurie . That pdoc seems irresponsible for refusing to give you more care. Bongo I feel so terribly sorry for that young man. A true tragedy. The MH care in the UK looks to be much to be desired. Bongo 3015 Unsure what to say except I care. Hope you can get the help you need. BTW Did you check for any physical causes? Aylady I too am on Citalopram for depression, OCD. I suffer from OCD due to my Tourettes. Its a comorbid disorder with Tourettes.
  #29  
Old Aug 01, 2018, 08:04 AM
Bongo2015 Bongo2015 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: United Kingdom
Posts: 49
Thank you, saw my new councillor yesterday who was lovely and very understanding. She gave me the time I needed to talk through what I wanted to talk about (not the other way around!). She allowed me to talk through the paperwork I had brought. She was very emphatic towards my issues and understood totally when I said I don't trust or like many people anymore. Hopefully start of something good.
Thanks for this!
*Laurie*, possum220
  #30  
Old Aug 01, 2018, 10:02 AM
*Laurie* *Laurie* is offline
Account Suspended
 
Member Since: Jan 2015
Location: California Uber Alles
Posts: 9,150
That is fabulous!
  #31  
Old Aug 02, 2018, 06:24 AM
possum220's Avatar
possum220 possum220 is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Jan 2009
Location: Uppa Gumtree West
Posts: 19,433
Glad you have hung in there and found some-one to talk to.
Hugs from:
MickeyCheeky
Thanks for this!
MickeyCheeky
  #32  
Old Aug 02, 2018, 09:41 PM
adordan adordan is offline
New Member
 
Member Since: Jun 2011
Location: Australia
Posts: 1
Quote:
Originally Posted by -jimi- View Post
Talk therapy doesn't work for OCD. Behavioral therapy does. The therapist needs to go with you for your session, to triggering situations, which includes things you fear, like germs. You need to stay in the situation with the support of the therapist who cannot talk like convince you it is safe (contraproductive), but can tell you things like they know it is hard but you can do it.

For every situation you win control over, your life will be bigger and less stressful. Talk therapy even if it is CBT is just bs, and does not help OCD. Therapists rather do CBT because then they can sit on their backs, their favorite pastime.

I agree 100%. OP I have an OCD personality (perfectionist). I have experienced severe social anxiety and the only thing that assisted in the long term was continual exposure. Social situations can still be daunting, but I function through them and don't 'run away' so to speak.


My experience with psychosomatic symptoms has only been within the spectrum of not liking to touch certain materials nor wear them, hating certain textures. I have body dysmophic disorder secondary to anorexia. All of these are intertwined. I'm afraid of becoming sick, avoid germs and I become sick with colds, flus and pain very easily, so to some extent, I do relate and you are most certainly not alone. Like other members have mentioned, you would benefit from a good psychiatrist, psychologist or therapist/counsellor who knows your concerns inside out and has worked with people like yourself, to good outcomes
Hugs from:
MickeyCheeky
Thanks for this!
MickeyCheeky
  #33  
Old Dec 18, 2018, 04:42 PM
Bongo2015 Bongo2015 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: United Kingdom
Posts: 49
Hi everyone,

Been a while since I posted in this thread. Had a horrible time of it last couple of months. Had a couple of trigger episodes that have started periods of anxiety, paranoia and physical responses to stress/anxiety such as the irritation in my feet and head. Been very distressing as I've not been able to shift it.

The constant irritation in my feet/head is getting extremely distracting especially in the run up to Christmas. I know from experience that MH at this time of year is the worst as there is so much to do and organise but with a MH issue its a minor miracle to think straight. This is causing me increased anxiety, stress, intrusive thoughts and poor decision making. The other night I was kept awake because of the feet irritation as you can imagine. Nothing seems to be calming it down at the moment.

I have spoken to my parents about it and they are very sympathetic but at a loss of how to help. They understand that I am struggling more than ever before with my mental health. Events that I should be enjoying, I am just not and all joy out this time of year is being sucked out. I'm just sick of living like this from one anxiety episode to the next. Just doesn't seem like life is worth it sometimes.
Hugs from:
MickeyCheeky
Thanks for this!
MickeyCheeky
  #34  
Old Dec 19, 2018, 04:10 AM
MickeyCheeky's Avatar
MickeyCheeky MickeyCheeky is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Jun 2016
Location: Italy
Posts: 11,817
Please don't give up, Bongo2015. You're in my thougths and prayers. Sending many hugs to you
Hugs from:
Bongo2015
  #35  
Old Dec 19, 2018, 05:44 AM
Bongo2015 Bongo2015 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: United Kingdom
Posts: 49
Thank you, life is so dam hard isn't it even without mental illness.
Reply
Views: 4435

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 09:51 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.