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Old Nov 18, 2007, 05:48 AM
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i went to support.....was ignored the entire time...even though i waited my turn and when it was my turn to recieve support....someone kept talking over me and kept engaging everyone else in conversation and didnt even listen to me. im so frusterated and upset.

i even had a sad face with a piece of tape over the mouth so that when the person was done recieving support they would know i was looking for it as well.....i was just trying to be nice
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Old Nov 18, 2007, 06:09 AM
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inny im so sorry you didnt get the support you need..i wish i were there at the time to do something..

did you keep the conversation? if you did you might want to give it to a mod so they could have a word with the person who was talking over you..

so sorry..

((((inny))))
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Old Nov 18, 2007, 06:30 AM
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I am so sorry this happend to you inny I am so frusterated I would love to of spoken to you had I been there.

Trish.
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Old Nov 18, 2007, 06:33 AM
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no...i dont want to make trouble anyway...thank you so much for replying to me.
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Old Nov 18, 2007, 06:41 AM
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its no trouble to express frustration. you're doing youself a favour in letting it out in a ...safe way.

keep it safe.. (((inny)))
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Old Nov 18, 2007, 06:58 AM
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(((gabriel))) (((tishie)))
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Old Nov 18, 2007, 08:03 AM
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InACorner,

I am so sorry that this happened to you! I hope next time you'll bash one of us over the head. I feel terrible even though I was not there. I did that to someone, not on purpose, but I left support when the person that asked me to come was finished. I did not know that the other person in there was there for support as well. She was also supporting the first person.

I would also like to say that hints are lost on me. Had I been there I think I would have missed your icon too. I'm so sorry, and I will try to pay attention to that. I'm sorry we let you down.
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Old Nov 18, 2007, 08:46 AM
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I'm sorry hon. It can really hurt when you need some TLC and people just don't seem to notice.

(((hugs for you))) <- if safe.

Can you talk about it here at all?
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Old Nov 18, 2007, 04:20 PM
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((((AAAA)))) ((((Alexandra))))

the lump near my sterum is getting bigger and it is starting to move now and is sorta aching...i have three others that are growing....the doctor said it was nothing( this was about two/three months ago) ....im scared....they said that to my aunt to who ended up dying of bone cancer at 28 years of age..my friend is a nurse and she kept her eye on it (as a friend , under the table kinda thing) when it first started and i brought her attention to it and she said it was definitily different and to see a different doctor no matter what the blood tests and xrays showed earlier....and i will ....dont know when she has to give me a list of people to look over and choose.....its probably nothing......its probably just my imagination running wild....but i have been very careful to make sure the people like her and my bf feel that i am not crazy and it is definitly growing and moving (again i hate invalidation and take numerous steps to prevent it) thanks for listening to me...
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Old Nov 18, 2007, 10:06 PM
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That sounds so frightening. I hope another doctor can reassure you. I am so frusterated
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Old Nov 19, 2007, 03:29 AM
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yes definately get a second opinion.. hope its all ok... remember to have some "me-time" for yourself too to cool any loose nerves.

tc.
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Old Nov 19, 2007, 02:44 PM
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(((Doh)))

(((Gab)))

thanks for being supportive....my friend who is a nurse is helping me i just texted her and she is working today and said she was going to help me out figuring who i should go to.
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Old Nov 19, 2007, 02:57 PM
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(((((inny))))) i know what it's like to have a medical mystery and to be treated as if you're insane. you are not insane. keep looking for docs. look into, maybe, a bone specialist. i would go all the way to the top - the best. i wish the best for you. you have every right to know what's going on.

about the support part. when i'm in chat, i don't multitask well, or multi-focus. anyway, i'm sorry for what you're going through. tc.
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Old Nov 20, 2007, 04:00 PM
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Sorry to hear what happened to you. Maybe next time will be better. There a been a few times in my life where I thought I was totally ignored. But later things turned around. and I felt great and included.
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