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Dec 03, 2007, 02:39 AM
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About a month ago I made a post regarding backstabbing. Admin removed it. They were very gracious and even asked me to repost without using any names. I have been so fortunate in these rooms. I have been welcomed with smiles and love, shoulders to cry on and wonderful advise. There is also the times when members have felt attacked! But thinking twice these
members have realized that sometimes meds are not good or people are having bad days and so moods have been forgiven. (repeat offenders excluded) If you find that members are speaking badly of you behind your back, you know the only cure is to report to Admin and send them the chat log. It is very unfortunate when this happens! And I can understand the hurt it can cause and lost of trust. It is hard to imagine that members that are so helpful would be cruel,. it is also possible some conversations are caught in the middle and misunderstood. But if you feel this has happened, nothing is to be gained by advertising names! That makes you as small as the ones who supposedly backstab. If I could I would mention the names of the members that have helped me so very much. Not only will that upset Admin. But I dont think the postings can be that long. As I said in the previously removed post, we all have problems. BUT we have a great group! Helpful, caring and available whenever needed. That is the most important I think.
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Dec 03, 2007, 02:49 AM
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i agree with you completely...
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "If I could I would mention the names of the members that have helped me so very much. Not only will that upset Admin... " (why would admin be upset about that? curious is all)
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Dec 03, 2007, 03:02 AM
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I am confused.
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Dec 03, 2007, 04:32 AM
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Good question and maybe I am assuming. But the last post which was removed mentioned a member. I felt the member was mistreated. And I was asked not to mention names.
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People are like stained glass windows They sparkle and shine in the sun but when darkness hits their true beauty is revealed only when there is light within . Elizabeth Krubel-Ros |
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Dec 03, 2007, 04:38 AM
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I apologize if what I wrote was confusing to you!
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People are like stained glass windows They sparkle and shine in the sun but when darkness hits their true beauty is revealed only when there is light within . Elizabeth Krubel-Ros |
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Dec 03, 2007, 01:38 PM
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Thanks for sharing how you feel. I agree with you on this subject. We all have bad days and misunderstandings can happen. But lets have a bit more forgiveness in hearts and try to work things out without causing or spreading the hurt around. Just forgive and move on. You will be a better person for it.
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All my life I have know that I am different. I have trouble with my thinking and processing information. I have trouble in keeping close friends. I am afraid of living, and I don't really know why. I am good at pretending everything is all right, by just gritting my teeth and just charging ahead and getting through the rough spots, but inside I am afraid of failure and getting critized for things I do. I am hoping someone can help me, or at least understand me. |
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Dec 03, 2007, 02:45 PM
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I agree.
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