Childs strange behavior

I can understand that. I can't say that I'd be eager to open Pandora's box either. I truly hope that it was a case of child curosity.

i would be very careful about asking questions to the girl without the non-leading psychologist because there has been controversy over false memories.... if you wish to know more, just google 'false memories.' i'm not saying that she wasn't abused, but that it could be used against her in the future.

I have a little boy the same age as the little girl in this situation and he can VERY easily be lead by conversation. I don't do it intentionally, but it's easily done. Like when he came home with a bruise on the side of his eye. I kept asking what happened over and over and eventually the story was Ms.-----hit him with the phone. I figured with my hounding I some how distorted his story. I knew it wasn't what happened because I go to school with the girl and she's the sweetest ever. I called the school and they explained what happened, made sense because when he first told me it sounded exactly like what they had said. Three year olds are still mastering conversation and story telling and can easily make a mistake or be lead...especially Haylee because she exaggerates and lies----like how my time out turned into absolute cruelty...luckily her mother knows me well.

I'm just scared to even deal with the children no more. It'll be fine if we all hang out together...Mom, kids...all of us...but I'm putting an end to the kids coming here alone, I can't risk myself nor my husband. I feel bad for the children, obviously there's something wrong here. I'm just thankful my children are happy and healthy and not abused...if only I could change the world egh.