It annoys me

when i first wake up in the morning and right away my mom starts asking me to do a million things. i dont know maybe i shouldnt be this angry about it but i am i feel like i am going to pop uefjfnjdxkds do this do that do this do that. She Vacuums when i am trying to sleep and then tells me to do all these things where i jsut want to be like NO I DONT WANT TO and she yells at me for not taking my medicine but i feel better and shes like "well then dont complain to me" shut up mom i didnt complain and then i get in trouble for saying shut up or i get in trouble for raising my voice or having an attitude well she started it ueijdkf,ldsx,l GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR i want to just break something or throw something

Well, i can understand you.

I don`t know if it matters if you think you should or shouldd not be angry....because you are.

You have never tried to talk to your mom one time when both of you are in a good mood and calm ( i mean not in the morning) and ask her kindly not to ask you to do everything on the morniong?

I don`t know....can`t think of anyhting else.

I get angry about a lot less important things though. so i CAN understand how it feels when you want to throw or break something.

Anger like any emotion needs release. But it`s a natural emotion,,,we should let it out...not nesessarily on the person who is causing it, but on something anything...........

you know hon we all have to follow rules. when we are kids we have to do what our parents say do although we either don't want to do it or we just don't feel like doing it. even as adults in society we have to follow rules like when working a job and we hate our bosses or other co workers. it is just a fact of life. it seems to me there is always someone there to tell us what to do. yes it stinks.

sweetie , as bebop said we all have rules, and if we didn't it would be chaos
if you left the house a mess would it embarass you to invite someone speical in, if you don't take meds you WILL get ill, Mom's are ppl too she had to grow up just like you and is trying to teach you the rules in life

Oh how I understand the predicament. When I was a kid I had a mother do the same thing. It wasn't so much that she asked me to do things as WHEN she was asking me. I barely had a chance to wake up or crawl out of bed.

It seems to me, if you aren't paying the mortgage, you have to do what the person who IS doing that says......or perhaps get a job and contribute to the household that way?

Rules are part of life. Might as well get used to it now, it only gets worse. Soon enough you'll be wishing it was just your mom nagging you and not the IRS and the car loan people and on and on.

Moms can be thoughless sometimes, Court. Your mom probably had been up for a while and her motor was reving to get the house cleaned up. Maybe she was a little jealous of you because you were sleeping in?

Maybe when you're both in a good mood, you might try talking to her and asking her to wake you up a little nicer then wait for you to at least wash your face and have breakfast or something. You could ask her to make a list of things she wants you to do rather than to yell at you to do this and that.

To keep her from getting upset and having to yell, take responsibility for that list and start doing what she needs you to do.

You know, the only thing my mom ever asked me to do as far as housecleaning was to dust all the furniture. When I got married, I had NO CLUE how to do things. What's worse, I had no established method or habit of things that had to be done. My mom never even bothered to teach me how to cook. Talk about a rude awakening!

Do yourself a favor and do what's on your list. If you don't know how to do it efficiently, ask your mom how she does it. You'll be surprised how far that goes as to her appreciating it! She might even be really nice to you at the time and might even take you shopping later!

But yeah. You need to contribute your part to the upkeep of the house. What can I say? That's just part of growing up.

Yeah I understand that I need to contribute to the house chorse but sometimes it gets really frustrating because I feel like my mom makes me do everything. I know she does way more than me but what i mean is I have 3 sisters 2 of whom still live at home. They are 21 and 11. My mom has chores that I have to do every friday on top of what ever she randomly yells at me to do every day. On fridays I have to clean the upstairs bathroom, vacuum the upstairs, dust all the furniture, and windex everything glass. I already do my own laundry and I empty the dishwaher everyday and I get annoyed because you know what the 11 year olds chores are? She has to clean her room! Well hello she is never even in her room! She sleeps in my 21 year old sisters room (which is the play room until my sisters room is built in the basment) So they do nothing. I take all honors and AP classes in school and i have a ton of homework eveynight shes in the 6th grade??!! But i know my mom doesnt care. I have tried to explain to her how i feel like she makes me do way more then them and that i feel like she treats them better and she told me to knock it off and that i do what she says because shes the mom and says so and then uses the guilt thing like after all i do for you... or the you can forgot about asking for a ride here or no money for this dont ask for anything ever again. And i will be like mom i'm trying to make you understand how i feel and you're not listening! and she says i dont want to hear it.

aye dios mio!