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Apr 08, 2008, 11:48 PM
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Why are people so damn mean?!?? You think you have a friend....weeeeeell then they turn their backs and hate you. What did you do? Ah, well thats simple. Ya got upset about something hateful THEY f'n said! God forgive me for having emotions. I'm so damn sorry that YOU hurt MY feelings! Why do I have to be perfect? I don't espect perfection, why do others????
Why can't I be perfect? Why can't I fit in? And why do I care so much?!? Everyone I go I feel like an outcast...always watching for what others think of me. I feel like everyone hates me and therfore I hate myself. Why?? Everything seems hopeless which makes me feel worse. I just wanna hide and not leave my house and hurt! 
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Apr 08, 2008, 11:53 PM
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((((((((((Hallie))))))))) I think your a wonderful, special person with a huge heart. don't let others tell you any different.
love you, chalmette
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Apr 09, 2008, 03:58 AM
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Hallie,
don't listen to the peanut gallery. you are fine just as you are. we deal with people with different problems...and personality disorders. damaged people damage people. i have felt hurt many time approaching people whom i thought were kind and upfront, only to find out they have a possessive bent or jealousy issues, or are outright hostile. ever notice if the attention isn't on someone very needy - but finds you instead? talk about someone turning cold. there is not much you can do about them...but you can respect who you are, and what you are doing and remain focused on what your own intentions are.. if someone hurts you unnecessarily, especially because they are acting out of their own issues or insecurities, you can choose to be the wise one - and 'uh huh' the whole deal. you will not fix them. it's their problem. you can only choose how you will feel about it. i usually feel sorry for people who unnecessarily hurt others. period. one suggestion would be - to think about how it's not worth getting upset over, although it grabs your attention at first...anothers' momentary thoughtlessness or deliberate betrayals, whichever is at the root, does not define you, or anyone else. it does not define you! whatever it was - whoever hurt you - says more about them, than you. take care night 
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Apr 09, 2008, 09:12 AM
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(((((((((HallieBeth))))))))))
I'm sorry someone has hurt your feelings.
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Apr 09, 2008, 05:03 PM
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Good post, i have gone through a lot of that myself, as AvPD I have a difficult time socializing and relating to other people, I always feel wierd and unaccepted. So I have all the sympathy in the world for you, I hope things improve (Halliebeth)))
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Apr 09, 2008, 05:09 PM
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On a side note, I love Evanescence!! (from your siggy)
I also struggle with these same feelings. Thinking the world hates me and everyone is talking about me behind my back and nobody likes me. Not sure how to help you but just try to keep telling yourself that you ARE a good person and you ARE loveable. Love yourself, and nothing else matters. |
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Apr 09, 2008, 06:47 PM
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hallie, I don't know you very well but what I can tell you is that no one is perfect. I hope things get better for you soon.
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Apr 11, 2008, 12:54 PM
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nightbird said: Hallie, don't listen to the peanut gallery. you are fine just as you are. we deal with people with different problems...and personality disorders. damaged people damage people. i have felt hurt many time approaching people whom i thought were kind and upfront, only to find out they have a possessive bent or jealousy issues, or are outright hostile. ever notice if the attention isn't on someone very needy - but finds you instead? talk about someone turning cold. there is not much you can do about them...but you can respect who you are, and what you are doing and remain focused on what your own intentions are.. if someone hurts you unnecessarily, especially because they are acting out of their own issues or insecurities, you can choose to be the wise one - and 'uh huh' the whole deal. you will not fix them. it's their problem. you can only choose how you will feel about it. i usually feel sorry for people who unnecessarily hurt others. period. one suggestion would be - to think about how it's not worth getting upset over, although it grabs your attention at first...anothers' momentary thoughtlessness or deliberate betrayals, whichever is at the root, does not define you, or anyone else. it does not define you! whatever it was - whoever hurt you - says more about them, than you. take care night </div></font></blockquote><font class="post">   
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