[wisewoman]

I am so pissed off I could spit. I got up very early yesterday and today to help my youngest with school issues. Today was a 504 meeting for her where ALL of her teachers were there supporting her and basically telling guidance basically to shove it. Guidance has a hard time with the fact that we went outside the box to get My daughter's needs met. Her teachers are bending over backward and really enjoy her and guidance has been a pain in the neck. She is on 504 due to OCD and GAD. Okay, so I am back in the town where I need to see a client by 10:00. 45 miles away. Worked, picked up my youngest, and drove 1 1/2 hour to see cancer kiddo at hospital. Daughter slept the whole way. Good visit with kiddo who has not had a bleed since the day before yesterday. I called my hubby when we were leaving hospital and my daughter asked for cooked carrots when she came home. We were leaving at 7:00 so that makes it an 8:30 arrival time. She sleeps again in the car 1/2 of the way and we get home, she's got tons of homework and he has not even cooked her carrots. She is exhausted and fragile. I asked her if I should heat rice and tofu and veggi left overs and she said no. So suddenly I hear her cring that she can't open her A.P. english disk and the computer is freezing. I get down there and she is crying because she is hungry. She is a frail kid, always has been. So I decide to turn off the computer and reboot and make her warm applsauce, mashed potatoe with sheese, and finally hubby cooks the carrots. Selfish bastard. We gave him a lot of tim to get something together for her to eat. She was sleeping when I stopped at the store for soy milk and had I know hubby didn't have any food ready for her I would have gotten her something nutritious at the store. So theres my vent. Incapable hubby who when I came home had left a plate on my side of the bed, and a glass on the floor at my side of the bed. This is the one who when I was trying to help with the computer I asked him to warm the apple sauce. He couldn't even do that. So that is my big vent

[SweetCrusader]

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I'd be pissed too! Sometimes you do feel like screaming and throwing things! I'm sorry that he was being so un-cooperative.pat

[Fuzzybear]

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[Maya]

My understanding and concern go out to you - I would also be pissed! It sounds like my husband - when I am having a bad day and ask my T to call me and he calls when my husband is home hubby gets all in a huff because I went to T for help instead of to him. In addition to that he does not work - said he would do housework for me (I work long hours and come home exhausted every day) but so far I am still waiting. Finally when I could not stand the mess any longer I vacuumed myself and when I told my T that he told me it is not my job - it is his - and I am not to do it again or hubby would continue to take advantage of me. Makes me SO ANGRY so I understand about men who don't do what they are supposed to do to help us

[wisewoman]

Thanks for the understanding guys. I felt like I had had too much to do and think about lately and that was the last straw. Daughter left this a.m. feeling exhausted. TGIF. I am going in a little late because hubby is off and took the kid to school. They are away for the weekend so I will enjoy the alone time. Wake tonight. If they have an open casket I'll be a bit angry. Anyways thanks.

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Jessica