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May 20, 2008, 03:10 PM
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Do you trust anyone completely?
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May 20, 2008, 03:14 PM
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myself, sure. other than that, probably not *completely*, but it's not out of being guarded; rather, it's quite a responsibility to put on another person...
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May 20, 2008, 03:18 PM
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Yes. Two people, and I'm one of them
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May 20, 2008, 03:18 PM
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How can you trust when everyone hurts you? So I would say no I do not trust anyone. To scared to let someone in, i have let people in, in the past but i just get hurt
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May 20, 2008, 03:25 PM
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yes
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May 20, 2008, 03:26 PM
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yes myself, others vary
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May 20, 2008, 03:26 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
purplebutterfly said: How can you trust when everyone hurts you? So I would say no I do not trust anyone. To scared to let someone in, i have let people in, in the past but i just get hurt </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> that's what i mean about the responsibility that it puts on the other person. nobody can live up to expectations of 100% trust, when our first obligations are always to ourselves. it doesnt have to be all or nothing, though... just trust to reasonable limits and be able to distinguish between a trust 'betrayal' and someone doing what's right for THEM, even if it's not to your benefit as well.
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May 20, 2008, 03:30 PM
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Besides God maybe. I thought I could trust them but...they sorta left me when I needed them. So idk now...
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May 20, 2008, 03:34 PM
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Good post, and something I struggle with
 Thanks for all your replies (so far). So many of us struggle with trust, I think, because of our disorders/illnesses and abuse/neglect in the past.
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May 20, 2008, 03:40 PM
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I almost trust my husband 100% but not the whole hog cos he is human and will always fail, I wouldnt want to put him under so much pressure.
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May 20, 2008, 05:21 PM
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I don't trust anyone 100%, however I trust my husband and therapist about 95%.
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May 20, 2008, 05:46 PM
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No way - I just don't believe it's possible.
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May 20, 2008, 06:06 PM
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I trusted my deceased husband until he became sick. He is the only one that I had that much trust in. Now I have limited trust with different people in my life.
Snowy
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May 20, 2008, 06:39 PM
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No.
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May 20, 2008, 06:39 PM
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wish I could, but no , oh perhaps my mom..... but we are all falable
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May 20, 2008, 07:12 PM
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100% no.........
my saying is D.T.A.(dont trust anyone) then you are never dissapointed. i dont even trust myself most of the time dec
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May 20, 2008, 07:15 PM
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Nobody 100%, not even myself.
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May 20, 2008, 07:31 PM
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I think that trust has to be viewed as a calculated risk. We have to calculate what we trust with whom. Sometimes we make the right decisions, sometimes those decisions although right at the time, life turns things around to the point where the trust is not any longer warrented.
I am a very trusting soul. I use my gut instinct to tell me who I can trust. Until the individual gives me a reason not to trust them, then it's there. There are a few people in my life that I trust implicitly. I think I'm lucky to have that many.  sabby |
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May 20, 2008, 09:46 PM
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I can not say I trust anyone completely. Its sad, but true. I hope one day I will be able to.
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May 20, 2008, 09:54 PM
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is trust related to reliability? if so, i can rely on some things, so i trust in those things.... i can rely on certain people to react certain ways, so i trust them on those levels.. there is at least a few people on this planet i do trust completely.. it is a great thing to share with someone
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May 20, 2008, 09:55 PM
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I'm with Sabby. I don't think trust is about the other person that much but about our own willingness to be vulnerable and "hope". I trust myself to be able to do my best and several others to be able to do the same by/for me. It's not a permanent thing but a moment-to-moment intimate interaction between one's self and another's self.
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May 20, 2008, 10:17 PM
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trust.................
wow 5 letters that carry alot of weight A word I believed in all my life even when younger even if it was broken when trust is broken its a very hard thing... silly as it sounds I am still amazed when it is....... I still have faith in ppl I still have hope in ppl I am a very trusting person till it is broken There are a few ppl I trust.......... I feel blessed with that muffy |
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May 20, 2008, 11:13 PM
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I trust a couple of my friends absolutely. They've really stuck with me and supported me through some really bad times.
I'd say I also trust my t and my pdoc, although I'm still a little reserved with my pdoc. --splitimage
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May 21, 2008, 01:26 PM
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Depends on the person, and the situation, and the information being shared. I don't know if I trust one specific person completely (beyond myself) and totally without a doubt in my mind...
But I think it also depends on my level of relationship with the other person... like having a give and take relationship, instead of it being one-sided with its openness.
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