[radio_flyer]

I woke up and couldn't sleep so I turned the tv on "real super low" in the living room.. to get away from puppy... to chill...

Well the gun toten tenant comes out.. *****es about the tv... and sat on the sofa.. then he goes and gets his gun and starts cleaning it in the living room... i asked him to take the gun outside or clean it in his room.. he refused... so I woke up the poor tenant in the basement, very close to tears, and asked him to tell the guy to put his gun up................he did....

I have been avoiding this guy since this weekend per Bob's suggestion... thing is, he is doing this to upset me......

The other day he left the sliding glass doors wide open with the ac on.. I asked him did he leave the door open.. He said he may have. I just looked at him.. He said he forgot to close the door would I please close it.. I told him he could close the door ... he is trying his best to get to me.....and now tonight ,.that gun....... AJ is not here...

well if the jerk goes off and shoots me...just want to say, you guys here are the best.. pc has saved me from many trying times..... ty for being here for me....

Should I survive this, either he shoots me or i have a heart attack because i am shaken in my shoes, I swear I will never come back here untill that little prick is goneeeeeeeeeeee...

I don't even have a phone to call Bob... Bob is getting me a cell phone, while I am at Aj's. He just didn't get it yet... I am stranded...... angry... scared...very close to tears......I AM SICK OF PEOPLE TRYING TO INTIMIDATE ME...

come to think of it, doesn't matter if he does shoot me. put me out of my misery.. i am sick of folks running over me.. am not a fighter...would rather not be around, than to fight and argue just to have peace.....i do have it deep inside to fight back, but that is not how i want to live.... so life is precious.. but not worth fighting for.......

I am ready to go home...

[pegasus]

Heck! I don't know what to say! Please be safe.

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[radio_flyer]

Isn't really much to say.... I will either call a cab or ask the guy in the basment to to take me home. Is only 4 miles from here.. problem is, I am not sure how I can get all the dogs.. The gun toten tenant beats Aj's dogs. He bathed one of the dogs and he practically drowned him.. He said the dog had a panic attack.. "give me a break".. you can't put a lot of water on a pug's face, because of their noses........he actually said he hated aj's dogs......

anyway, the only reason I am here is because my son did not want to leave the dogs with this guy..aj doesn't trust him with the dogs.... he knows this guy hurts them..i. aj was supost to be home Sunday. He isn't home.. I am going home.. hell or high water..... will try to take aj's dogs with me.. it will be hard.. they fight with my pug..

he can stick his gun where the sun doesn't shine......trying to intimidate me with that gun... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr..... now i am sure I know the reason his parents would rather pay $,1000 back rent than to let him move back home.......he isn't welcome here either.......

thanks for the huggggggggs..
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[bebop]

hon is this guy renting from you? if so evict him right away. you don't need this crap.

[(JD)]

(((hugs))) I'm not up on the whole situation...but you can't live this way, in any form or fashion! Take what dogs you can and leave. Dogs are dogs, and though wonderful companions, are not any where near the value of your life. If you get shot, severely wounded, you would say, Why didn't I leave? Let's not go to that point.

Does the guy have a permit? Have you spoken to the police about the guy's display of the weapon?
Too bad you don't have pics of him abusing the animals, the ASPCA could haul him off for you, gladly!

Get out, get out NOW. Once you're out you can think clearly and not from all that fear and frustration.

[radio_flyer]

The house is not mine. If I owned this house he would have been gone long ago. It will be my son's house when he gets his degree, until then the house is in his father's name...

God.. the things i get myself into... because I am easy going folks like to take advantage... they think kindness is stupidity.. guess this lil dummy lady got the smart *** evicted.....told son's father as long as the kid is in this house I will not stay here to help my son or anyone........Bob was pretty upset when I called him this morning about the gun and that he refused to take the gun from the LR.. He said the kid has to goo ASAP

[radio_flyer]

I doubt he would actually "shoot" me. He did enjoy intimidating me by bring out his gun. He knows how I feel about them and he deliberately cleaned it in front of me......

In VA you don't need a license to carry a gun.. U do need a license/permit to carry a concealed gun.. He applied for a permit but was denied because of a drunk in public charge a few years ago. He has to wait another year to qualify for the permit.

Wish I had pics of him abusing the dogs. I would have never known had he not told me he beat one of the dogs for going in his bedroom.. he said he hated the dogs.. I only know what he told me what he did to the dogs...

He left with a bag of clothes. I told him I was leaving and he could have the whole house to himself.. Kind of mad at me for letting this punk get to me. Thing is I don't have a phone and I don't drive anymore.. I was stranded... think being stranded is why i was so upset... I tend to "freak out" when I am stranded. Need to work out a plan or things to do should or whenever I feel stranded again.....plan of action... this freaking out is for the birds, and it gives all the power over to "well this morning" to the gun and tenant... this makes me cringe... I gave this 22 year old "the power" over me....

I am out of here sometime this morning.. Waiting for the guy in basement to get up so i can use his phone to call a taxi...

((((((huggs))))))))

[radio_flyer]

I told the young man that Bob wants him to give him a call. He said "what for?" I told him I didn't know. Then he said if he is going to tell me to leave, he doesn't have to because I am leaving. He started packing his things...

I called Bob to tell him they guy was leaving and he said good.. He talked to AJ and AJ is coming home tonight. Sooo
looks like the guy is moving out today... at the latest, tomorrow he will have everything out.........

Funny tho.. Bob wanted him out the end of May and I am the one that asked Bob to give this guy to the l0th or 15th of June. I was sooo worried about him.. Where he would go, etc. What he would eat.. shrugs shoulders.......I will never do that again. Seems whenever I reach out to try to help someone they always bite me in the end....You would have thought I would have learned by now.. Some folks "me" just don't get it...

To be honest, I do believe he would have shot me, that is if he thought he could get away with it.. The look in his eyes were like "darts shooting at me"...He doesn't know AJ is coming back tonight, so I will not be surprised if he doesn't come back late tonight, and try to scare me. Might be an interesting evening... Hope I am wrong.... When AJ gets here, I will then go home...Nobody is here now.. So I will "sit it out" till AJ gets here..

I feel bad it happened this way.... Although I am glad it is over.. I am tired... this kind of stuff sucks all of my energy...

[bebop]

I am glad he is going. you please take care of yourself during this time. never try to outguess someone that is holding a gun.
I too always get bit in the butt when I help others.

[AAAAA]

(((((radio))))) Bringing his gun out to clean it is an act of aggression in my opinion. Why the hell is he cleaning it so much anyway? Where is he using it? I am so happy that this guy is going to be out of your hair! I would highly recommend that Bob update the rental agreements for all future tenants including a clause that states that guns are not to be on the premises and if they are discovered the tenant will be immediately evicted and forfeits his security deposit.

I don’t even know how you would cover yourself about the dogs, that’s just creepy. Can’t trust anyone that would hurt a pet.

[gimmeice]

(((((((((((((((( radio_flyer )))))))))))))
I am glad that the guy is leaving.

[radio_flyer]

yes, his bringing the gun out at 5 in the morning is definitely an act of aggression. he knew the gun was upsetting to me. ..... why you ask was he cleaning his gun at 5am. no reason other than he was trying to intimidate me.

thanks for the great idea to update the lease for the next tenants. immediate eviction and forfeit of deposit i didn't even think of, but believe me, it will be on the lease now...

most interesting thing happened this afternoon. my son was at the beach, so he called one of his friends to check up on me. i glanced out the window and this guy was carrying a huge baseball bat. i asked what in the world was he doing with a baseball bat. he said he came to beat the "crap" out of the tenant that was giving me so much grief. he said the kid needs to learn "respect".. i said lordy, lordy, you just missed the guy. he left fifteen mins ago. he said as long as i was ok, that is all that mattered. i smiled. felt good that someone cared.. but wasn't ready for a baseball bat fight.. wipes brow and thank God... tomorrow the tenant gets the remainder of his belonging, and he is long gone. what a big relief...

anyway..... i am home.......... will be a long time till i go back to my son's house. giving him full responsibility for maintenance and upkeep. i just can't handle all the stress..think this visit made me sick.. head is pounding.. tummy is churning..head is spinning.. prob a delayed reaction......i feel awful... tomorrow is another day .. a better day i am sure..

dang i've talked a lot today.. been years since i had so much to say ..

giant thank you and hugs to all that were so supportive. was very helpful getting me through the day.....

[radio_flyer]

you and me both.. he will be long gone by tomorrow..

((((((grimmeice)))))))))

[AAAAA]

Radio,

I'm so glad that things are working out finally. When I think of all that you've gone through with this tenant... This guy is scarey! And it sounds like he's not making nice with the other people in his life either. I agree that he needs to learn some respect; although not the method that the other gentleman suggests.

I'm sure that things will settle down for you once you see the last of him!