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Old Aug 16, 2008, 10:13 PM
countrymusicgurl countrymusicgurl is offline
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Am I doing the right thing to have an abortion tomarrow???

Everything will be over the pregnancy the fighting the yelling the hurt and the sadness....

I can't do it I thought I could but I can't....

I'm not even sure if this is the right thing to do...

but i have to do it....I dont have a choice....

Is this completly stupid or is this the right thing to do???

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Old Aug 16, 2008, 10:47 PM
wanttoheal wanttoheal is offline
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For me, it would not be the right thing, but you have to make a decision for you. If you are having doubts, please think seriously about it. It will affect you for life. Don't make a decision for other people. Make the decision based on you and only you. It's a life, in my opinion. There are wonderful families out there if you don't want to keep the baby. Regardless, do what is right for you, not someone else. It's not something that can be reversed.

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Old Aug 16, 2008, 10:51 PM
countrymusicgurl countrymusicgurl is offline
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I do want to make the right choice....i'm trying to make this about me and only my because i know this will effect me the rest of my life no matter what i choose but i'm having a hard time making this desicion based on what i want becuase everyone else is over powering that
thanks for the advice
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Old Aug 16, 2008, 11:01 PM
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(((((((((((((((countrymusicgirl))))))))))))) I know it's hard. Try to be strong and not let them over power you. You have choices even if it doesn't feel like it. If you want this baby to be born (whether or not you keep it), use that to strengthen yourself against them. Ultimately it's you who will have to live with this in the end. They are selfish to push you to do something you aren't sure you want to do. Afterward, they will go about their business and it will be over, but you will have to live with your decision. Please be strong.
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Old Aug 17, 2008, 04:12 AM
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I don't knoq your circumstances but you probably have time to think about what you really want. No quick decisions. It is important for you to be comfortable with your choices. Ask your heart to guide you and speak with someone who has no interest in the outcome to see what you really want to do. Take time and take care.
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Old Aug 17, 2008, 05:06 AM
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This must be an incredibly difficult decision. I personally support abortion and a woman's right to choose to have one. If you can not be a parent to your baby - then only you can decide if abortion or adoption is right. But I don't see anything wrong with abortion if that is your choice.

Take care.

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Old Aug 17, 2008, 05:16 AM
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I also agree with a womans right to an abortion however if you are having one for other people then I would think again.
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Old Aug 17, 2008, 05:36 AM
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I agree with Tishie ..... please if you can try and get away and think by yourself for a while ..... you have to reach this decision by YOURSELF honey ..... noone else has the right to make or persuade you to do this ....... my heart goes out to you, whatever you decide we will be with you, please make the decision that's right for YOU only ....... hugs, care and love, Jinnyann .......

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