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Sep 25, 2008, 06:04 AM
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I have a list of faults a mile long.
 I am "too needy". I've been told I'm "immature" I have sometimes reacted rather than responded or "ignored" when hurt and triggered (especially if I think someone is hurting me on purpose... although I am "improving".... gradually) I have reacted rather than responded or "ignored" when feeling harshly, unfairly or wrongly judged I have been a bad daughter, cousin and friend and I'm sorry for everything I've ever done wrong
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Sep 25, 2008, 06:15 AM
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(((((((fuzzy))))))))))))))))))
you have a list a mile long of good things about you your caring your loving you are all our friend on here you show suppport ((fuzzy))))))))))))))))))))))))) kind bear like you do something wrong ...never muffy |
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Sep 25, 2008, 06:21 AM
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I think you are being very hard on yourself here. You are not perfect and neither is anybody else. Hugs my friend, you are valued here. (((((((((((((( Fuzzybear ))))))))))))))  
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 Pegasus Got a quick question related to mental health or a treatment? Ask it here General Q&A Forum “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein |
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Sep 25, 2008, 06:39 AM
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Ahhh, my dear FB, I have so been where you are. You are being really hard on yourself and I know that you can't just make yourself happy or bring yourself up during times like these. Just know that I think you are an incredibly kind, caring person. You have helped me and many others on so many occassions.
I hope this can give you a smile. I love this picture and look at it often!   BJ |
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Sep 25, 2008, 06:50 AM
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(((((((((((((( muffy )))))))))))))
(((((((((((( pegasus ))))))))))))) ((((((((((( onlymedid )))))))))))) Thank you all  Also I can't believe some of the things I did long ago when I was hurt triggered and confused (IRL and online sigh) (I hurt myself as well as others by my STUPID behaviour and I am still being hurt...)But I hope one day everyone will know that I do not hurt anyone on purpose. (my mother did eventually forgive me, after many years, for being such a horrible daughter and hurt by her rejection)
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Sep 25, 2008, 06:55 AM
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(((((((((((((( fuzzybear ))))))))))))
You are a good, caring person please remember that.
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Sep 25, 2008, 09:00 AM
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(((((((((((((( gimmeice ))))))))))))))
thank you 
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Sep 25, 2008, 09:34 AM
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Sep 25, 2008, 09:39 AM
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(((((Fuzzy))))i love you and think the world of you. Your always one of the first here to put out your hand and offer me support. Your a good person who tries her best. That's all anyone can ask for. Keep in mind too, your loved by so many here.
((((Fuzzy)))Keep your spirits up love ya chal |
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Sep 25, 2008, 10:13 AM
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((((((((((( Fuzzy )))))))))))))
I agree with Pegasus, I think you're being unnecessarily hard on yourself. Everyone has faults and everyone should learn to accept faults of other ppl since nobody is perfect. It isn't right to believe what other ppl say about you... because they do not see what you know, they see what they see (I know that doesn't make sense) but they don't see any inner growth or improvement of strength even if it is or has occured, because only you might be aware of that. So I think you should ignore the 'wise' advice of the ppl who say such things and concentrate on what you yourself know about you.
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Sep 25, 2008, 10:54 AM
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((((((((( hugs ))))))))))
Just keep moving forward, at your own pace. You are making progress, and you have to give yourself credit for that. We all make mistakes too. If you learn from it, it has served its purpose and you can move on. You will still make mistakes, because you are still human and you are still learning and growing. You have to start forgiving yourself. Okay?
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Sep 25, 2008, 12:10 PM
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((((((((((fuzzybear))))))))))
Sometimes we all are too hard on ourselves. I, too have many negative thoughts about myself. I am trying to replace each negative thought about myself with a positive thought. Even if the negative things are true, we can always work towards improving ourselves. IMHO...Just remember, nobody is perfect.. You are one cool fuzzybear..
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Sep 25, 2008, 12:28 PM
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Fuzzy I have been there, there a little now. to you
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Sep 25, 2008, 03:59 PM
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((((fuzzybear)))) everyone needs just a simple hug now and then...here is yours..hope you feel better soon
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Sep 25, 2008, 04:35 PM
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((( fuzzy )))
Introspection and awareness are helpful. More helpful if we can not apply a judgement to those things. Hard, I know! Please be good to you and look inside with curiosity and gentleness.
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Sep 26, 2008, 10:05 AM
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thank you all so much
love and peace
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Sep 28, 2008, 03:39 AM
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(((((Fuzzy)))))
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Sep 28, 2008, 07:06 AM
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Fuzzy: I have all those faults & could add many more to the list, but I think you & I are taking positive steps forward to correct them. Even by recognizing them is a big step. Try not to be so judgemental about yourself, but just observe: "This is where I happen to be now in my recovery." "These are the steps I am taking to reach my goals." Yes, it is a long process to heal the many wounds & perhaps dysfunctional coping techniques we have adopted, but it is worth it to improve the quality of our lives & our relationships with others.
I, too, get down on myself & sometimes it feels hopeless, especially when I take the proverbially "steps backwards", but I try again to not be judgemental & try to learn something from all my experiences. I don't want these negative traits & didn't choose to be this way, but I am. But I don't have to continue to be. I have a choice now to change many aspects of myself. Take good care of yourself & that starts with loving & appreciating all your fine qualities & not berating yourself for the ones that are negatively impacting your life, but that you are working on to negate their effects. If you need some help in the appreciation of yourself dept. reread all the previous posts.--Suzy |
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Sep 28, 2008, 08:09 AM
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((((((((((((( AAAAA ))))))))))))))
(((((((((((( Suzy5654 )))))))))))) Thank you both!
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Sep 28, 2008, 10:18 AM
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...psst...in c.c. m.b.
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Sep 28, 2008, 11:32 AM
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((((((((((((((( moodyblu ))))))))))))))))
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Sep 28, 2008, 04:03 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((fuzzy))))))))))))))))))))))
  
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Sep 28, 2008, 04:14 PM
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((((((((((((((( allthegirls )))))))))))))))) 
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