Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Nov 13, 2011, 04:18 PM
Justme_55's Avatar
Justme_55 Justme_55 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Oct 2011
Posts: 224
My female dog loves me, but she's more of a daddy's girl, loves male attention. My 9 month old boxer is a mamas boy, follows me, puts his paw in my hand when we sleep, is SUPER affectionate. Anyone think there's something to male dogs preferring the female owner & vise versa for female dogs and male owners? Just wondering if there is a biological key to this or if I just have a little attention eating pup..
__________________
"The dog days are over."

advertisement
  #2  
Old Nov 13, 2011, 04:27 PM
Anonymous324956
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
I have a male dog and even though he loves my husband he follows me everywhere, Even if I go the toilet he will wait outside, Maybe they just prefer the opposite sex more?
Thanks for this!
Justme_55
  #3  
Old Nov 13, 2011, 09:53 PM
Anonymous32437
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
i have had both..& i think it's just the luck of the draw & the breed. some are just more affectionate than others...my female chessie didn't care for me but was my shadow.

my 'stumpy" is more of a women's dog & not so much towards me...but the other 2 girls will throw themselves at anyone who looks at them..young, old, both sexes..it's just like people...some are just more partial to certain things.

i think if they are rescues of any sort too it depends on their history.
Thanks for this!
Justme_55
  #4  
Old Nov 14, 2011, 02:03 PM
whenwillitend's Avatar
whenwillitend whenwillitend is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Nov 2010
Location: US
Posts: 1,143
We have all female dogs, two of them are my shadows, follow me everywhere, the third one is a bit more independent, and she's a tad more of a daddy's girl.
__________________
As she draws her final breath
Just beyond the door he'll find her
Taking her hand he softly says

For the first time you can open your eyes
And see the world without your sorrow
Where no one knows the pain you left behind
And all the peace you could never find
Is waiting there to hold and keep you
Welcome to the first day of your life

Just open up your eyes as I lay you down tonight
Safe on the other side
No more tears to cry
Thanks for this!
Justme_55
  #5  
Old Nov 14, 2011, 02:14 PM
Justme_55's Avatar
Justme_55 Justme_55 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Oct 2011
Posts: 224
I think it is partial on dog/owner. I have made the mistake of spoiling them both rotten, my Pitt is 80 pounds & thinks she's a 10 pound lap dog & the boxer is nearing 100 pounds and I've taught him how to hug only he does it at the most in opportune times like walking through the door with grocerys lol but I wouldn't trade them for anything. My girl was NOT happy when I brought him home was pretty pissy about it the first 2 weeks now she has accepted him. My friend brought his female dog over & she was sniffing my boy and my female got all protective of him, kind of funny how she hated him & now she's his protector lol.
__________________
"The dog days are over."
  #6  
Old Nov 15, 2011, 06:54 PM
lizardlady's Avatar
lizardlady lizardlady is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Mid World
Posts: 18,108
Justme, I don't think it makes a difference. I've had realclose relationships with male and female pets.
Thanks for this!
Justme_55
  #7  
Old Nov 15, 2011, 07:45 PM
Justme_55's Avatar
Justme_55 Justme_55 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Oct 2011
Posts: 224
I am thinking for those of us that treat our animals like our children the concept of I love them the same amount but in a different way rings true.
__________________
"The dog days are over."
  #8  
Old Nov 16, 2011, 08:34 AM
Fresia's Avatar
Fresia Fresia is offline
Wandering soul
 
Member Since: Apr 2010
Location: Off yonder
Posts: 6,019
I haven't noticed it so much being a male/female things as it being in someone's energy, could be male or female. Even my own dogs might respond more or less to anyone else energy depending on how someone carries themselves, but does not seem to have anything to do with them being male or female. I had a guy roommate once with a Lab that the Lab listened more to me than he did his owner, cuddled more with me than my roommate, and heeled naturally. I felt absolutely terrible. Then when I moved back in with my folks at one point, all of my dogs started listening more to my father than they did to me and were right by his side; was heart wrenching but interesting to see. Ironically now my neighbors dogs come to me without asking, listen to commands without hesitation, and want so much affection that we joke I should adopt them. It depends on the person, the dog(s), and the relationship(s).
__________________

I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it. -M.Angelou
Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. -Anaïs Nin.
It is very rare or almost impossible that an event can be negative from all points of view.
-Dalai Lama XIV
Reply
Views: 466

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 10:25 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.