Finally Made an appt with Pdoc!!!!!!

My husband finally, after years, made an appt with his Psychiatrist! OMG i was so excited, and still am, except the closer it gets to his appt...the worse it's getting. Manic episodes daily now (was a 2 week cycle). I let him know that i needed help and support and people to talk to and get advice because i am having a hard time being supportive under these circumstances. He freaked out and told me not to tell ANYONE....so instead of telling him i (of course) talk to my best friend. I told him about this site (but didn't tell him the name). Ummm yeah.....that didn't go over well. So now he's really mad screaming about if life with him is that bad and stressful i should just leave. Then he went to work.....uugh. Any advice about what to expect the rest of this week and in the days after his appt?