[xplodins]

My ex partner believes that I cheated on him. That I take drugs He recorded my calls and says he hear me talking to someone else on things I may say to myself. He also says he hears someone having sex with me, sex noises in the back on call. He is convinced that there are fake porn online of look alike girls. We are not living together. He believes I have been with his friends, I lie to him, cheat on him, that I am playing some game when I tell him what is wrong with him. He doesn't believe me even when he says he does. He recorded our calls as proof and edited them and says people hear the sounds too. He tracks me through Google location history. He also thinks I am stealing his work. Songs he wrote. He has no respect for others feelings when he thinks others hurt. He is sucidal. He believes he has always been right to me. That he never does anything wrong. He has history of drug abuse and alcohol abuse from 17 to 24. No rehab centre or treatment,self treatment at home, cutting off from people. He is socially dysfunctional. Only had me to talk for 2 years 8 months. For a year he abused ritilian,believing he has ADHD. His work is not affected, he has too many thoughts and believes alcohol helps calm it down. He smokes since 17 to present. He refuses to believe he has problems. One moment he is lovely,next it's emotional and mental abuse. False accusations. It's been everyday for the past that I am not alone on the call with him, each night for 3 months. Before that it was that I has cheated on him for 2 months. He lies to me, cuz he thinks I lie. The believes what people do, you should do the same. So whatever he thinks as true he does that. He also believes he can read people's thoughts, he can predict future of people's life, he can read palms, he can see auras, he has a higher frequency wavelength for hearing sounds than normal humans do. He resently had alcohol as well and left ritilian as he tells me for 3 weeks now. He hallucinates, he hears voices, he sees things. What is this and is there any solution to help him live a healthy happy normal life? He is 27 right now. His recent stress was delay in our marriage. Also when we are around each other he behaves normal and loving. He has started having memory loss. He has said I never told him things that I did. He is suspicious, impulsive, obsessive, clingy, at times bipolar in behaviour.

[kaliope]

hi xplodins
we are unable to diagnosis here but your boyfriend is definitely exhibiting signs of a mental health issue. he sounds very much like a friend of mine that has schizophrenia. i would encourage him to go to a professional for an evaluation. these issues are not going to go away without some sort of treatment. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome

[CANDC]

xplodins, welcome to Psych Central. There are many people here ready to listen and share.
I am sorry you are having doubts by your boyfriend.

He sounds like he is thinking things that are not happening. Stay safe and be careful about being alone with him if he gets abusive either verbally or physically. As Kaliope said, he really needs to get help and is feeling a lot less like he is.

But you must also take care of yourself. Feel free to visit here again.

Thank you for sharing your story.

Hello xplodins: Welcome to PsychCentral. PC is a great place to gain support, learn strategies for handling mental health concerns, & to make internet friends. There are many wonderfully supportive members here on PsychCentral. A couple of forums, here on PC that may be of interest to you include:

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With regard to the concerns you wrote about in your post, it sounds as though your "ex partner" has some serious problems. It is not possible for me to know what the circumstances are like in your country. So I may or may not be able to offer anything useful in the way of suggestions. But, it seems to me that your ex really needs to seek medical, drug treatment, & mental health assistance. He potentially may have problems in each of these areas.

A good place to start would be with a physical exam, & honest discussion, with a general practice physician. This physician could then, hopefully, refer your ex on for additional services. At least this is the way this sort of thing might typically work in the U.S. Of course, your ex has to be willing to participate. If he is not (& from what you wrote, it sounds like he may not be) then you must decide how much further involvement you want to have with this man. Again, based on what you wrote, it sounds to me as though he has the potential to be dangerous & you must protect yourself. Under any circumstances keep posting, here on PC, with regard to this. You'll be able to get additional viewpoints & suggestions from other PC members.

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