I was with someone for two years who had bipolar but was diagnosed about a year ago. Our relationship was a complete rollercoaster. Lots of breakup and getting back together, lots of heartache, and he did lots of drugs. Had bad PTSD from the military as well. Once I left him he went back to rehab and finally got clean and has been for 2 years. We became friends again last year and made amends. He got off his bipolar medication half a year ago and he is slowly pulling away from me, slowly becoming cold, and slowly becoming more miserable. He texted me last night after a month to see how I was but he barely made conversation. He just says a couple words then disapears. keep asking him whats wrong and hes just cold and mean. This is really troubling me and hurting me (once again) and Him being a jerk is just killing me. I'm not really sure how to deal with this. I have to learn that I can't save him and we are not together anymore so it's not my job to help him. What should I do? the more I try talking to him the more he pushes me away. Is this normal?