Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Mar 19, 2010, 06:50 PM
azkaban's Avatar
azkaban azkaban is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2010
Posts: 20
I don't know if this is the right place to post this but...

I just saw someone get shot a few hours ago...I am incredibly traumatized...I need someone to talk to...is there anyone I can talk to about this? I've been shaking and crying uncontrollably for and hour now... ):

advertisement
  #2  
Old Mar 19, 2010, 07:43 PM
Rapunzel's Avatar
Rapunzel Rapunzel is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Jun 2003
Location: noplace
Posts: 10,284
I am trying to think of what to say. That is very traumatic, and after something like that I would be more concerned if you didn't have a reaction. I'm glad that you are reaching out for someone to talk to. I'd like to help, but I'm concerned that talking online might not really be enough for you you right now, and I'd encourage you to talk to someone in real life if you can. If not, hearing someone's voice on the phone still would give you more than online. If you don't know someone you can call, maybe someone here can help you find a crisis service, or there might be one listed for your community in your phone book.

I hope that you are able to get all the support you need, and I am sorry that you had to see what you did.
__________________
“We should always pray for help, but we should always listen for inspiration and impression to proceed in ways different from those we may have thought of.”
– John H. Groberg

Thanks for this!
Catherine2
  #3  
Old Mar 19, 2010, 08:04 PM
azkaban's Avatar
azkaban azkaban is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2010
Posts: 20
Quote:
Originally Posted by Rapunzel View Post
I am trying to think of what to say. That is very traumatic, and after something like that I would be more concerned if you didn't have a reaction. I'm glad that you are reaching out for someone to talk to. I'd like to help, but I'm concerned that talking online might not really be enough for you you right now, and I'd encourage you to talk to someone in real life if you can. If not, hearing someone's voice on the phone still would give you more than online. If you don't know someone you can call, maybe someone here can help you find a crisis service, or there might be one listed for your community in your phone book.

I hope that you are able to get all the support you need, and I am sorry that you had to see what you did.
Yeah, I'm actually talking to a friend on the phone right now, it's helping a bit.

Thanks for your advice and concern. I really appreciate it.
Thanks for this!
Catherine2
  #4  
Old Mar 19, 2010, 11:53 PM
Pikku Myy's Avatar
Pikku Myy Pikku Myy is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Jun 2009
Location: US
Posts: 3,103
So, so sorry you had to endure this.... life is so tough... most of the time. Try and chill out, better yet, go and see friend or family.... it helps also to talk in person Hugs
  #5  
Old Mar 20, 2010, 12:30 AM
chalmette70043's Avatar
chalmette70043 chalmette70043 is offline
Grand Poohbah
 
Member Since: Feb 2007
Location: Chalmette, Louisiana
Posts: 1,663
Hello Azkaban. I'm sorry you had to go through that. It is scary and hard to collect your thoughts afterwards. When i was in college, I witnessed a murder right outside my bedroom window. Two men were fighting and one pulled a gun. The gunman saw me. I spent days without sleep. Scared he would come back for me. I was scared to call the police because he saw me. I hid in my room crying and shaking like you. I did not share with anyone what i witnessed. To this day i still think of that night. The memories of it arent like they use to be. They don't haunt me like they use to.

I agree with the others. I think you talking to someone about it would help you get through it. Its not something you want to go through alone. I hope you seek help. And i wish you good thoughts to overcome this.

chalmette
  #6  
Old Mar 20, 2010, 02:49 PM
darkpurplesecrets's Avatar
darkpurplesecrets darkpurplesecrets is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Aug 2007
Location: within another world not seen. built and silenced behind a wall of fear based strength......
Posts: 12,715
((((azkaban))))

I am glad you reached out and I am so glad you are talking to someone IRL. I am sorry you have had to see this. I can understand and talking is important. We are here to listen when you are ready to talk. Please do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself. If you have to call 911 or go to the Er and reach out to someone. If you can be with someone so you are not alone that would be good too. Know that we care and we are listening when you are ready. Sending many gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

dps
  #7  
Old Mar 20, 2010, 02:54 PM
jennaorgana's Avatar
jennaorgana jennaorgana is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Feb 2010
Location: in a loonbin on the eat coast
Posts: 1,041
i am like rupunzel, i can't think of anything to say. i would be traumatized too, it scares the crp out of me to think about that. keep us updated on how you are.
__________________

MCLEAN HOSPITAL ALUMN!!
www.mylifeintreatment.com
there is a LOT of personal information on there from my current hospitalization and it may not be for everyone, but it's a good read!


please PM me anytime, day or night... i am always awake and wanting to talk!!
We'd never know what's wrong without the pain
Sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same
  #8  
Old Mar 21, 2010, 10:12 AM
TheByzantine
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
How are you doing, azkaban?
Reply
Views: 333

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 07:50 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.