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Old Oct 23, 2006, 03:15 PM
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I can't do anything without feeling him, seeing him, hearing him and smellng him. Why can't he just leave me a lone. He is always there ready, waiting for the perfect time to make his move. I just want him to go away forever and leave me alone...Please...

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Old Oct 23, 2006, 03:28 PM
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(((safe hug)))) It takes time and effort to counter the bad memories.
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Old Oct 23, 2006, 03:29 PM
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((((((( HUGS ))))))) - May your mind find time to rest as your body HEAL's from the past.................. YOU can do it! - I have FAITH in YOU!

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Old Oct 30, 2006, 05:26 PM
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I can relate to how you feel...I think it does take time, but you will get through it...

Hang in there!

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Old Oct 31, 2006, 11:00 AM
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No, you won't always feel that way.
Over time...
The feeling will occur to you less often...
And it won't be so all encompassing when it does.
But it can take some time, yeah.
Hang in there.
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Old Oct 31, 2006, 11:09 AM
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If you've ever lost someone you love, think of that experience and how long it took to get over (and how painful). Life moves on and the fears and pains get a bit less. Hoping some good things come your way soon to help you make more good memories.
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Old Nov 01, 2006, 03:08 PM
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Thanks everyone. I really apprecite the hugs and your kind thoughts. Things are still going downhill at thie point.
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Old Nov 04, 2006, 04:39 AM
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Lindasy,

I know you are in a really bad place right now and suffering a great deal. I am sorry what happened to you and I hope you are working with someone, a therapist trained in PTSD treatment, who can help and support you, which it sounds like you need the most right now.

As someone else mentioned, trauma is very much like a death. There is the initial trauma of the experience and deep feelings that are painful. It takes time to even begin to cope and function and then there are many stages we go through, sadness, fear, anger, depression, etc, that all bring their own challenges. Neither are something we ever totally get over and we certainly never forget but it takes a lot of time, even years to get to the place where we can begin to shake the hold it has over us and move find a way to go forward.

Medications can also be helpful. A therapist can help diagnose your symptoms so that you can get the right meds for them. They can also recommend a good psychiatrist to prescribe them, the two work hand in hand.

I don't know how anyone does it without help and support, I know I couldn't . I need that from my family and friends, but also need it from a therapist who is able to help me process it and teach me how to deal with it, in a way they cannot.

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Dearest Soul,

While there is no other person who will ever know the depth of your pain, know there are those our in this world who send you love without any strings or obligation.

While even time can not heal some pains, and some scars we carry with us our entire lives, that does not mean you can not enjoy the wonder of each drop of rain or the beauty of listening to the song of a sparrow.
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You are very strong because you are still feeling. And you are still fighting to keep the insides alive. This is what it means to be a warrior.

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