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Jul 30, 2025, 05:05 PM
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Hey everyone I'm new here.. I don't know where to start on this but I guess I'll get to the point. My fiancee and I have been back together for about 6 months, we split up about 4 years ago cause life got in the way. before him I was with a physically abusive man for over a year and just now finalized our divorce after 9 years of being separated. Here lately I've had these overthinking moments where I feel like my fiancee is going to wake up and not want me anymore. I tell him to please not stop loving me and he says I'm trying not to and that I'm making it difficult cause he feels like I want him to, which I don't. I've reached out for counseling services. but I just want to stop overthinking and live my life the way I deserve. My parents passed when I was 12 and 26 and I'm battling grief from that. but I feel I might have abandonment issues causing this turmoil in my marriage....
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Jul 30, 2025, 05:36 PM
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Oh no @strugglingwithlife sorry to hear you have so much loss in your life. That must be rough.
You may want to stop telling your fiance "please not stop loving me" because maybe he will. He sounds like an anchor in your life. A therapist can help or a support group. You also may get more replies in New Member Introductions https://mysupportforums.org/new-member-introductions/ CANDC Quote:
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Jul 31, 2025, 10:58 AM
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its hard not to sometimes. I am so afraid that he will. I've started the journey to counseling but so far it's a struggle to find coping mechanisms. I wonder everyday why I am the way I am.
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Aug 06, 2025, 04:49 PM
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It's hard for everyone here including all the real people here
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