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#1
Aug 31, 2009, 08:29 PM
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I walked out of the session last week i never have before, and on my way out T said she would call me with my session time. She hasn't called so I'm guessing that i don't have an appointment booked. I'm so stressed out. I don't know what to do. I would have thought she would at least called me to see if i was ok because i have never walked out before. Its like she really does not care anymore. I only have a few months left. I'm so sad.
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Aug 31, 2009, 09:07 PM
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(((((((((((((((crystalrose))))))))))))))))))
I know that your time with T is coming to a close in a few months...can you call her and just tell her you would like to be on the schedule?? It would be easy for me to assume T didn't care in the same situation, but there are so many other possibilities: she is going to call but hasn't yet, something has come up in her life, a supervisor told her that she needs to wait for you to contact her, etc, etc. I have a tendency to assume to worst too when I don't hear from T, but none of the things I've been scared of have ever turned out to be the truth. I hope you will let yourself contact her.  to you!
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#3
Aug 31, 2009, 09:51 PM
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I agree with treehouse about calling her.
You can be upset with her and still call so you can have the appointment that you want. Then you can talk to her about the walking out and her not calling. I think there is a lot to talk about there.
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Sep 01, 2009, 01:16 AM
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Completely agree with echos and treehouse. I would call t and arrange next appointment then discuss how you are feeling baout this with her.
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#5
Sep 01, 2009, 06:01 PM
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no! if she doesn't want to see me then i'm not going to push myself at her.
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#6
Sep 01, 2009, 06:44 PM
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But your post is about you wanting to see her..
You can guess a thousand reasons why this happened, but until you talk to her and find out what the reality is about what happened, you will only be guessing instead of knowing. Guessing can be so tormenting.
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#7
Sep 01, 2009, 06:48 PM
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((((Crystalrose))))
Try to think of who you are punishing by not making this phone call. Maybe your T was simply distracted, forgot or is waiting to see if you will take the initiative to phone her yourself. More than likely it has nothing to do with her "not wanting to see you". This is your therapy and at some point you need to take charge of it. I understand that you are having doubts and likely feel a bit lost and confused right now...but that is exactly what your therapist is for...helping you work through these feelings. I hope you make the phone call. Try listening to what your needs are telling you. |
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Sep 01, 2009, 06:59 PM
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(((((((crystal)))))))
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#9
Sep 02, 2009, 03:34 AM
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How do you know she doesn't want to see you? Unless you speak to her about it, you will never know. I know it is how you feel, but there are a million other things it could be, and my guess is that NONE of them are to do with her not wanting to see you. I really hope you do call her because it sounds like it is really painful for you
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