[homealone]

Has anyone ever seen sexual conduct explained in a therapist list of guidelines in an orientation packet, usually given out at evaluation session ?

Of the 30 or more I have seen in my lifetime, one single social worker stands out as having stated in black and white, right along with her guidelines of payment etc., that she would not have sexual relations with any client.

Anyone else ever see this ?

Tom S.

[sunrise]

No, the therapist I see didn't mention it in his paperwork, but I haven't seen any of my other healthcare providers give that either, such as my family doctor, dermatologist, Psych-NP, cardiologist, gynecologist, etc. They all have guidelines prohibiting sexual relations with clients, but I have never seen this mentioned with the paperwork I fill out when I first see them for treatment. Do you think it should be?

[NuckingFutz]

I know...let's ask Clinton! Jk grin.

[homealone]

I have never seen this mentioned with the paperwork I fill out when I first see them for treatment. Do you think it should be?
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Out of over 30 I've seen in my lifetime, she was the only one who promoted a safe therapeutic environment.
So what do you think ??

Tom S.

Originally Posted by homealone

I have never seen this mentioned with the paperwork I fill out when I first see them for treatment. Do you think it should be?

Tom S.

Like someone else said, those same guidelines apply to many other professions, but they also do not include that information in their paperwork. I don't see it as being necessary. Does anyone go into a therapist thinking it is okay to have a sexual relationship with them? Really? It's kind of like putting a warning sticker on a hair dryer saying don't use this while standing in water. Stating the obvious. My t has talked about this issue before. I am clear on what he believes, but putting it in writing doesn't guarantee a thing. I trust more what he says that what would be put in writing.

[Yoda]

My therapist has her policies posted in the waiting area and it is clear on what kind of therapy she will/will not provide.

[homealone]

*Does anyone go into a therapist thinking it is okay to have a sexual relationship with them?*
Chris
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How many pay for therapy (xanax included) with outside benefits ? How could we ever know ??

Real professionals, like those in the medical profession who actually have something significant to loose, are smart enough to never be alone behind a closed door with someone with the potential for credibility damage.
It's the only safe (smart) approach.

How many juveniles will be raped this very afternoon after being dropped off after school for their weekly dose of coping with a dysfunctional family and absent parenting through divorce ??
I say hundreds in this country alone, but with rapist in charge of accountability, how could the truth be known ??

Tom S. in Tn.

[sittingatwatersedge]

Real professionals, like those in the medical profession who actually have something significant to loose, are smart enough to never be alone behind a closed door with someone with the potential for credibility damage.
It's the only safe (smart) approach. [/quote]

Hmm. I understand you up to a point, and can only speak for myself, but if my T had anyone else in the room, whether my DH, an intern (or whatever the word is) or a totally deaf witness for safety, not a word would ever come out of my mouth.

End of therapy.
what say you Tom?! the only approach?! Therapeutic relationship is a dyad, not a triad.........

[lynn P.]

Originally Posted by homealone

*Does anyone go into a therapist thinking it is okay to have a sexual relationship with them?*
Chris
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How many pay for therapy (xanax included) with outside benefits ? How could we ever know ??

Real professionals, like those in the medical profession who actually have something significant to loose, are smart enough to never be alone behind a closed door with someone with the potential for credibility damage.
It's the only safe (smart) approach.

How many juveniles will be raped this very afternoon after being dropped off after school for their weekly dose of coping with a dysfunctional family and absent parenting through divorce ??
I say hundreds in this country alone, but with rapist in charge of accountability, how could the truth be known ??

Tom S. in Tn.

I'm very sorry you had horrible experiences with therapy. I understand some therapists, doctors etc have abused patients and that's incredibly wrong. There are also patients who have difficulty with 'transference' and there's a forum for that. My worry here is, you post some frightening comments and I hope this wouldn't scare some members from continuing their much needed therapy.

Originally Posted by homealone

*Does anyone go into a therapist thinking it is okay to have a sexual relationship with them?*
Chris
__________________________

How many pay for therapy (xanax included) with outside benefits ? How could we ever know ??

Real professionals, like those in the medical profession who actually have something significant to loose, are smart enough to never be alone behind a closed door with someone with the potential for credibility damage.
It's the only safe (smart) approach.

How many juveniles will be raped this very afternoon after being dropped off after school for their weekly dose of coping with a dysfunctional family and absent parenting through divorce ??
I say hundreds in this country alone, but with rapist in charge of accountability, how could the truth be known ??

Tom S. in Tn.

So therapists who are not in the medical profession are not trustworthy? That pretty much includes all therapists. Heck, my psychiatrist is alone with me in his office. So he's not a professional either? You've confirmed my suspicion. So therapy must be done with someone else in the room? You really don't make much sense. That's not realistic or therapeudic.

[sabby]

Thank you all for your comments on this subject. At this time I am closing this thread.