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Old Nov 27, 2013, 07:47 PM
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I miss her intensely, though I am loathe to admit it! I see her twice a week but it literally feels like months go by in just those 2 or 3 days between sessions! I try to be thankful that I have the capacity to love someone enough to miss them that deeply. But that's kind of hard...mostly I just miss her.
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Old Nov 28, 2013, 11:01 PM
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i posted in here ages ago.... 3 years and 3 t's ago. I am also in contact with my current t a lot thru the week. it helps. i am supposed to see her tomorrow but i am NOT going downtown on Black Friday @_@ noooooooooooooooo thank you! She said she'd call me... if she remembers.
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Old Nov 28, 2013, 11:12 PM
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I do. Im currently not seeing one at the moment but do plan on going back to her. We just took a break, you could say. I miss her very badly. I keep the last email she wrote me up in a separate tab so I can read it easily. I hated going 2 weeks in between sessions. The wait was sooo long. Going weekly gave me something to look forward to.
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Old Nov 29, 2013, 12:16 AM
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I do miss T. Especially the day after I see T. I also don't like that I miss her, but then I do.
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Old Nov 29, 2013, 01:16 AM
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Old Nov 29, 2013, 05:54 AM
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I'm currently on a 2 months theraapy break because last time my T told me that except if I'm going through a crisis she didn't want to see me until I was ready to go the next step. Yes, this was quite harsh, but she took a lot of time explaining why she was doing it, and that the door would always be open if I was in rough or if I had finally made some progress.
And that she really wanted me in her DBT skills group even though we were putting individual therapy on hold.

Took me a little while but I stopped missing her... until I got the text on Monday to remind me of the first skills group appointment that evening. After the group we talked a bit and decided to resume individual therapy in two weeks. Sounds stupid but since making that appointment I miss her terribly and wish I wouldn't have to wait this long. But at the same time I'm a bit scared because it has been so long.
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Old Nov 29, 2013, 06:04 AM
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I see my T each week. During that time I write to him about what is happening so I dont miss him.
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Old Nov 29, 2013, 09:53 AM
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Yes, I miss my T between sessions. I count the days until I see her next. I think about her all the time. Wonder what she is doing now. I found a picture of her on the Internet. Looking at the picture between sessions help.
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Old Nov 29, 2013, 10:32 AM
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Absolutely. I miss her most the night of session. It seems that once I get in my cAr I am very happy to leave, but the second I get home I feel like I am grieving.

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Old Nov 29, 2013, 11:35 AM
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No, I do not.
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Old Dec 03, 2013, 02:36 AM
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things have been getting so weird, i don't even want to go to my sessions. I cancelled a bunch of them, so she called, and i didn't even want to talk to her. I said "I'm fine" a lot.... :/ hate it when things get weird with T's. I don't want to start over with someone else for the umteenth time.
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Old Dec 03, 2013, 07:54 AM
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Not particularly. I'm generally too busy to think about it, or resting from being too busy to think about it.
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Old Dec 03, 2013, 09:45 AM
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I always miss my T, but the worst time is the rest of the day and night after my session. It helps when I have a lot to do and occupy me during the week.
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Old Dec 03, 2013, 12:37 PM
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No, I don't. But maybe that's because I can make contact when I like? Keeping our communication close makes me feel like she's there. If I didn't have that, I reckon I might miss her, I suppose? She would seem much further away.
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Old Dec 05, 2013, 07:09 PM
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I miss my T like crazy, on some days it can be really bad and I can think of nothing else I hate feeling this way but I can't help it. Also, after two years my therapy is ending in two weeks :'(( not sure if I will be able to cope with the loss
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Old Dec 05, 2013, 08:01 PM
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Yes, I miss mine probably because he's always nice and supportive of me. If I didn't like seeing my T I wouldn't spend $$ to talk to him every week. I'm fine going week to week without contacting my T, so I'm not feeling desperate or anything, but during the week I will wish the T could be around. I feel like I wish that I had someone like my T as a family member or relative, or even a friend for 1 hr a week that I didn't have to pay . For me it's at it's worst right after my session, when I realize it will be another week until I go again and I haven't had time to discuss all of what I wanted to.
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