Spiraling

Today, I received a call on my cell phone. Someone had dialed the wrong number. Normally, this is nothing unusual but something about the callers' voice, tone, or words made me think "former T". I knew this was irrational and paranoid thinking on my part. I had the call traced. The number is registered to my Former T's wife. I was supposed to have my session today, but T's office rescheduled due to a conflict. I sent T an email but he hasn't .

This is SO incredibly difficult....I feel so alone.

((Lost)) That is odd that your Former T's wife called accidently. I hope you hear from your T soon and find the much needed comfort either from T or us on PC. We are here. Wishing you peace of mind.

T never responded today. I'm not sure WHAT to think anymore? Someone posted recently that there is a distinction between being a victim and having a victim mindset. I wonder in a situation like this, which one I am? I am so confused, angry and scared.

Thanks Jeez.

I'm kind of confused. Do you think it was your former T calling from a phone that belongs to his wife, like trying to harass you or something? Or do you think it was your T's wife dialing your number accidentally? I don't know your history with your former T so I really don't know how upset or worried I would be if that happened to me but either way it would still be unsettling at the very least. I'm sorry your T hasn't responded but if he had to reschedule your session maybe he hasn't had an opportunity to even read your email yet.

I am a bit confused as well, I don't understand why Former T's wife would have your number.

Aside from that, I hope you hear from your current T soon!!!! Hang in there!

Remember, just because the phone is registered to the wife doesn't mean it's the wife's phone. It just may be in her name. T may never have deleted her number and accidently dialed the number. As innocent as that.

Farmergirl, I spoke with her. I was home sick and my cell phone rang. The caller asked for someone and then said..."nevermind, I have dialed the wrong number."

Normally , calls like that are no big deal to me. This one was different. Tone, words?

ah, you hadn't said it was a female on the phone. I see. Well, still, she could have just been using her husband's phone and called a wrong number. I doubt she had a clue who she was talking to. She may have realized she'd accidentally called a client and felt awkward about it though. That might explain the tone that seemed odd to you.

Hi Lost,

I bet you have a number similar to someone else's and your T's wife dialed yours by accident. Not fair. I'd be angry and sad and anxious over that I know it...

Please remember that you are an important person. You deserve to have a T that will be there for you! You deserve the best.

(((lost))) I'm sorry that happened. I think you understand that it was probably an innocent accident, BUT STILL.

T never responded. It has been over a day.
I tried to consider what's worse...

Feeling lost. Angry. Alone....on your own?
Feeling lost. Angry. Alone....in therapy?