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Apr 01, 2011, 10:50 AM
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i figure if T can go away so can i i decided i just dont want to deal at all with her vaations and holidays and booked a get away with my friend to go to the fingerlakes and spend a week touring whinerys and being drunk,durring one of her vacations.good friends good whine and being drunk sounds like good self care to me who needs a T
 .avoidance to the max
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Apr 01, 2011, 10:53 AM
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Not avoidance at all. Going off and having fun is great self care. Enjoy yourself.
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Apr 01, 2011, 11:19 AM
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Hey, Have a good time. We all need it sometimes!
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Apr 01, 2011, 11:59 AM
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I think it is great that you are planning a trip with your friends. It is especially great that you can plan it for when your T is going to be gone. You know, early psychoannalists used to require their clients to take their vacations at the same time they did.
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Apr 01, 2011, 12:19 PM
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I love the finger lakes region! I don't know where you're from -- are you familiar with the area? I haven't done the wine tours but my daughter went to college in Geneva so I was in that area many times. If you want to do something in addition to the wine tours (assuming you like outlet shopping) there are like 100 outlet stores just off the NYS Thruway in Waterloo, pretty much right between Cayuga and Seneca Lakes.
Hope you have fun, Granite! |
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Apr 01, 2011, 01:22 PM
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go have a grand time! a vacay sounds like good coping to me, good wine and good friends.....
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