[90mphINneutral]

I finally made the decision to switch therapists. It's just too hard for me to keep doing treatment with him, when deep down inside I really love him. I've showed him, I've told him but he will not recripicate. I wrote him a letter explaining exactly how I felt. He told me that my feelings were narcissistic, that I was only thinking of myself in the relationship. I guess the best thing for me to do is to find somebody new. As hard as it's gonna be, it's something that must be done.

[BlueFaith]

90, I know it's hard, but I feel that you have made a wise decision.

[(JD)]

((((90)))) I hope this decision works out for you... will you try to find someone who is female instead? What if you find you have feelings for the next T if it's a male? If that happens, then you'll need to stick with one of them and work through this. Sounds like a tough time you are in! TC.

[Overcastbutclearing]

Sorry you are so sad.
I hope it works out for the best...

[Lexicon78]

A hard decision...yes. But I think it's for the best because you cannot get any better with someone that you have these types of feelings for. Your t was only keeping the relationship as it should be...a client-therapist relationship. Nothing more could ever come of it, I'm afraid. So yes this is a good move.

(((((((((((90)))))))))))))))

You have my support!!