Ideas about Anger in Therapy

Yup. With you there.

Everything hinges on whether or not you really are paraplegic (metaphorically).

If T says, "You were raised as a paraplegic but in fact there is nothing wrong with your legs," how do you feel then?

That's a horrible thing to hear (for a start it means you've wasted half your life), but sometimes it's a T's job to say it. And worse: sometimes they are right.

I really am Aspergic, but my T makes no concession to that fact. As a result, I'm less Aspergic with her than with anyone else.